Kuite09 Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 [FONT=Comic Sans MS, sans-serif]So its been 6 months since the break up, I haven't seen him since May (due to a family emergency) and between May and August we had limited contact by text or phone calls until I found out he was truly dating someone and been NC for about 3 weeks or so.[/FONT] The last time we spoke he told me he cared for me deeply and that he is sorry it didn't work out because he truly did but we did try and we did have some great moments in the 7 yrs of our relationship. I know he truly cares and has love for me because we did have a deep love for one another. At this point I am just so mind boggled, I wonder if I will even hear from him again? he stated he didn't want to burn his bridges with me and that he truly cares because I was a very important part of his life. I told him I can't speak to him again and that I needed to close this chapter of my life and he started to cry. He said what if this time apart makes me realize you are what I need in my life and that I want to forgive your mistakes want to make it work, can I contact you then? I don't want to lead you one and I understand your hurting but what if one day we're meant to be again? He had the nerve to ask if I believe people can fall in love all over again? why would he even ask me this???? This is pretty much the longest time we've gone with no contact and especially without seeing each other. I don't have no urges to contact him no more but I just wonder will he ever contact me? I guess I'm just venting a bit while I'm trying to do whatever possible to move on with my life. I have so many positive things going for me right now and it just hurts that I can't share none of this with him.
Dark Phoenix Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 I get the impression that he wanted to keep you as his backup plan. When you told him that you want to move on from this chapter in your life (him) it backed him into a corner and he panicked, basically reaching into the waters frantically grasping for a fish. You did the right thing by not settling for being second best. He shouldn't need to go out with other people in order to realize that you are the one for him, he should have known that while in the relationship.
Author Kuite09 Posted September 30, 2011 Author Posted September 30, 2011 I get the impression that he wanted to keep you as his backup plan. When you told him that you want to move on from this chapter in your life (him) it backed him into a corner and he panicked, basically reaching into the waters frantically grasping for a fish. You did the right thing by not settling for being second best. He shouldn't need to go out with other people in order to realize that you are the one for him, he should have known that while in the relationship. Thanks for your response Dark Phoenix. Right now I feel so empty, I feel even more stupid than anything because its been 6 months post break up and I still feel hurt. I did a lot of mistakes in the relationship and I wish I can take them back but its too late now. I just wonder how can someone move on so quick after 7 yrs and the fact at this moment we are not speaking (becuz no one is making contact of course) it makes me think how can you go on with out even hearing me. We have 7 yrs of history and I just wonder if he'll ever pick up the phone to even call me or if I'll ever see him again.
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