arbrne_vet Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 Today is day 5 of NC. i made the choice to go NC because i want nothing to do with her anymore. I have gone NC before, in hopes of her getting her **it together, and looking at what we once had. then, it all just started all over again. I feel good. i have been working out like a crazy person, (a good crazy person!) I know she will be contacting me again. I am prepared for this. I am prepared to not answer calls, or texts. Now, i wonder about which AFB.......
thebig-guy Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 Can you remember when you felt good? was it sudden? or have you just gradually felt better over the past 5 days of NC? Im on day 3 of NC and have hit an obstacle, that obstacle being my birthday and im expecting a birthday message from my ex. Im trying my hardest not to say anything...
Author arbrne_vet Posted September 29, 2011 Author Posted September 29, 2011 i just concentrated on all the crappy things she has done this past year, and made a choice that i am done. i don't care if she calls, and i don't care if she beats on my door crying and begging. what's to stop her from pulling all the crap she has done this past year. I AM MUCH BETTER THAN THAT!!! That......... is when i started feeling better.
Chi townD Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 Good for you! You're using NC as a tool to help you heal! YAY!!! Hopefully, she called the Geek Squad to help her out!
Author arbrne_vet Posted September 29, 2011 Author Posted September 29, 2011 I did a search on our local library and they have the following book Getting Past your breakup they called and said it is in. looking forward to jumping in and devouring all the information! I will be glad to share some of what i learn with all of you!!
sleepykitten Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 That is a great book, will help you so much, was recommended on here and is well read by lots of love shackers.
Graceful Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 Today is day 5 of NC. i made the choice to go NC because i want nothing to do with her anymore. I have gone NC before, in hopes of her getting her **it together, and looking at what we once had. then, it all just started all over again. First, great job on day 5. You're right, you've made a choice, and a smart one at that. Lesson learned and stay the course. Now, i wonder about which AFB....... You're going to have to head EAST. Got it?
Rorschach64 Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 I think one of the hardest things I have experienced with my 4 months of NC is expecting similar stories on these boards where the ex tries to contact you a bunch of times and finally stops. Then actually not recieving anything at all, not even a happy birthday, was rather upsetting to be honest. Are you capable of dealing with that Airborne Ranger?
Author arbrne_vet Posted September 29, 2011 Author Posted September 29, 2011 Rorschach64, yes i am prepared. that is why i can do this. thanks for watching out for me. Also, was not a ranger, but thanks:cool: De oppresso liber I was stationed right next to that AFB on the east coast. I think it starts with a "P" Beautiful country.. How am i doing?
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