Bryanp Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I don't like the fact that your wife lied to you about having a condom being used. This is very bad news. You both now need to be tested for STD's. Good luck.
robf1971 Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 Update- On the outside and towards my wife all things are going great. I could not ask for a better relationship between the two of us and our children. On the inside tho....things are ugly. The thought of him inside her, grabbing her hips and pounding away does not leave my mind...EVER..... I invested a lot of time and energy into researching this douchebag and finally tracked down his current cell number and called him. Initially he hung up when he realized who I was. I called him back (blocking my own cell number) and we talked for about 20 minutes. He told me he and his wife were having problems at the time and he didnt mean for things to go as far as they did. According to him it was a very emotional and unplanned event. Contradicting my wife's version of events he said he didnt bring condoms with him....sigh.....I pretty much lit his ass up and told him he was going to pay. He told me I needed to get over it (obviously) and that he was sorry and he apologized. I pressed him on the issue of whether he wore protection or if busted nut inside her but he avoided the question and told me I knew what happened.... Going to take some time to process this...I hope it helps and gives me some closure.....I dont feel that it will.... BTW Counseling is the biggest crock of bull**** in the health care industry...what a waste of 4 weeks of my life....NO **** it's going to take me time...NO **** I have issues with my wife being intimate with another man....NO **** if I hadnt been working 60+ hours a week she wouldnt have had the free time to start an EA with this guy.....NO **** her teenage relationship with this guy played into it. What a waste... I'd have told his wife without a seconds hesitation.. let her be the disher out of any punishment.
robf1971 Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 He told me I needed to get over it I wonder if he'd be quite so understanding if you'd shtupped his wife
jnj express Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 So you got your answers---now you know your wife continues to lie to you, and cover her butt---and you continue to do nothing You are obviously gonna stay with her---so what is your problem You are in the anger stage, with a wife, who has now caused you to have see a dr. for STD testing---but even that doesn't phase you---once again---why are here----If you wanna vent--vent away---but if you are gonna do nothing about what your WIFE DID TO YOU---you don't really need to be here moaning and groaning----just go ENJOY your life, with your cheating wife. Also do not come back at me yelling about how mean I am being---all I am doing is REPLAYING YOUR EXACT FACT PATTERN, AS YOU HAVE SPELLED IT OUT!!!!!!
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