Lucky555 Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 My bf of 11 months is now introducing me to family. I have backed off and had begun thinking of the relationship and assessing what it's benefits and cons are. Now I am supposed to meet family here soon and I am wondering what has changed?!!!!!! I had not suggested it and I had been less in contact as I said. It's absurd to me that it's happening now. I'm still in a confused state. At one point I was admiring and willing to open up till he acted like a jerk asking me when in leaving his place. He did this to me again this past weekend...I felt under appreciated. So also I was ignored because I started avoiding "leaving" then he ignored me, I left and he texted when I left. I basically showed him I'm walking out if he behaves in such a way. I then went back and we talked. However I have this unsettling feeling. He is in less contact with me right now. So what is taking place with this new change from him..like Finally nearing family? I don't understand! As I said I'm still not sure what I want to do :/
coolheadal Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 How old are you two? Sound young? This odd relationship you got there. Can you explain more in detail what's going on between you too. Seem to be jumping around in your sentences. Bit confusing to trying to fish out what your saying here. Try to relax more and tell us your story clearer. As to meat his family there is not harm with that one.
D-Lish Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 Are you saying that lately when you're over at his place, he'll ask you to leave because he wants space and you don't leave? Then it takes him ignoring you before you leave, thinking you're showing him you're willing to walk out? I'm confused about what is happening. You've said you've been withdrawing, is it possible he is responding to that by withdrawing himself?
whichwayisup Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 He makes you feel bad. That's a fact. You don't trust him as much, he hurts you over and over again.. That should be enough to tell him goodbye. Who cares about meeting his family.. Things between you two are NOT good , so meeeting his family is what, supposed to make it better? Make you feel secure? His actions and his words, how he treats you is what's important, so far he's done nothing but treat you like crap.
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