CBN Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 I started dating this girl around august 24th and am falling in love with her. We spend almost all our free time together. We became officially a couple on september 12th. I used her computer recently and when I turned it on her facebook messages screen was up and curiousity got the best of me so I looked through them (wrong I know). Anyway one of the messages was from a friend of hers, and apparently on september 8th then had a dirty skype session, she showed him her tits while he jacked off, and maybe she did more im not sure. I was extremely hurt to see this, because we had been with each other basically all the time, and then i feel like the one day I wasnt there this is what she does. I woke her up, told her what i saw, told her we were done, and left. She called me crying about 60 times, texted me all night saying it was a stupid mistake, that she was insecure and it was flattering that this guy found her attractive, and that she would never do something like this again. I am trying to forgive her and move on, but now in the back of my mind im wondering how many other friends she has that she talks dirty with, or how many guys shes hooked up with that she still talks to. Also wondering if she is the type that may love me, but just cant help herself from flirting and talking dirty with other guys. I'm just paranoid now that she is going to do something like this again and hurt me. Should i give it more time to try and forget about it? Does it seem like she would do something like this again? She kept saying she felt horrible, but then at times would say, we werent officially dating, even though she always told me not to talk to other girls. I just dont know what to do because I love her but I dont want to go through something like that again, and i feel like if she was doing something she would do it in a way where she wouldnt get caught
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