Buttercup84 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 I had a intense dream last night , where I went to see my ex and he told me how he has slept with girls already , is seeing someone and other things that happened between us . I was doing so well and didn't have the urge to contact him now I'm sad again despite him being a jerk to me most of the time I miss him so much. Been nearly two weeks nc and I'm sure he is happy with a new girl . Sorry for the rant
antz2411 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 get a grip of yourself woman! its just a dream lol
Author Buttercup84 Posted September 28, 2011 Author Posted September 28, 2011 Lol I know . But it was so real, like seeing him again . Urgh.
shayla Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Sometimes dreams can seem so real, they can set you back a bit. But you will be able to shake it off. A good friend of mine got divorced 20 years ago and still has "Jackmares," as she calls them" and all she does is shake them off and go on. Soon I pray that you will be able to as well.
mike588 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Rant away. I know how you feel. I've had several dreams about my ex. and it kinda ruins the mornings. Something I've noticed is that when I go to bed and am thinking about her it seems that's when I dream of her. Lately I think about other things before falling asleep and that seems to work?
Viv Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Hey well done on the 'almost 2 weeks nc', I think our break ups were around the same time and Im on a similar count, so it looks like we're both doing better Don't break it because you're sad. Dreams are our way of processing things, so maybe it's a step closer to healing...maybe...
leoc1973 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Hey I have seen your pictures you are beautiful he is definitely thinking about you. Try dating someone else and watch him come running back!! I know I would. Ps. When are you coming to New York? lol
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