antz2411 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 never make permanent decisions on temporary feelings! even a dummy knows that lol 1
Rorschach64 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Yup, you may be sitting here wishing they would come back, even I am guilty of that right now, but when/if they do come back you may not even give two cents about them or their feelings after they did the things they did to you.
Author antz2411 Posted September 28, 2011 Author Posted September 28, 2011 oh she did come back and on my terms, she knew that was the only chance of reconciling.
ScienceGal Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 The only way I would take my ex back is on my terms too. The chances of him coming back at all are very slim, and on my terms...pretty much nil! I am sad and nothing like the happy person I used to be. I feel myself waiting for him, but I know that meeting the right guy will lift that burden a little. I deserve better (we all do) but it's going to take seeing better to restore my faith in love and a happy relationship... Just takes more time... Patience is not one of my virtues, but I am working on it
Diogenes Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Take heart, it can happen in a flash. Mine's been gone over three months now and it's been a rollercoaster through hell, with ups and downs. But the ride seems to be gradually coasting to a stop. As a example, I locked eyes with someone last night picking my son up from Cadets, I felt a flutter/spark that I haven't felt since I first met my Ex. Does it mean I'll see her again? who knows?, she could have been anyone picking up a friend's kid for them, but it shows such feelings can come again even when you think it never will. One open smile from her across the room was all it took to knock back the gloom I was feeling.
Author antz2411 Posted September 30, 2011 Author Posted September 30, 2011 Patience is not one of my virtues, but I am working on it time and patience is essential to everything in life!
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