AlleysEx Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Instead of drunk dialing (or texting) your ex, say what you need to say here... I'm working on a project at the university I attend and our goal is to help people find closure, finally say what they've been meaning to, and the like. Also, the project is worth a big chunk of my grade. This is where I need your help. My goal is to get at least 50 people to write a letter to their ex saying all of the things that they never got to say, whether it's funny, heartfelt, even bitter. Just get it off your chest. You don't have to send the letter to your ex, just writing the words down helps a ton. Everything you were going to call him/her at 3am and say, write it here instead. I then have to compile and analyze the letters for my class and right a paper on it. You can either post the letters here or inbox me at [email protected] I would really really appreciate the help and it really does help a lot, in terms of getting some closure. And thanks in advance.
headsashed Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 ill be the 1st to post then. i want you to know what damage u have caused,your heartless piece of *****,ill never understand why this happend and im losing interest in it all now,ive told u to stop contacting me several times but u wont listen,now stop.
eleanorhurting Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 I really wish things would have been different with us. If I could go back I would do everything differently. I would have taken things slow, I would have gotten to know you better, I would not have snapped at you all the times that I did. I would have made you see that I am actually a really fun person to be around and that Im worth it. I wish everything would have been different. But I cant change things now. God knows I want to but I cant. But I also cant move forward. I just want to go back so bad and change everything. I want to let go but at the same time I cant. I keep holding on to the idea of what could have been. What if. What If I had not been so stupid. What if the timing would have been different. Why can't I let go? I keep trying to convince myself that you were not right for me .That you are a bit of a jerk. That you never acted the way I wanted you to act and the way that I feel I deserved. But I still can't let go. I know at some point during the day I will feel sad and I will feel lonely and I will wonder what if. What if I hadn't been so stupid. What If i had not been so complicated. Why did I tell you that we could not be together anymore? Why did I listen to my head and not my heart? My head was telling me that you were all wrong but now my heart wonders why you are gone.
Author AlleysEx Posted September 30, 2011 Author Posted September 30, 2011 I'm going to post too Hey... This is what we've turned into? After everything that we were...just two weeks ago you told me that it was just you and me, and NOW, there's him? And you won't even talk to me. Ive been pushed aside......Again. Why do I let you have this affect on me? How do I get over you?
TheDovic Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 I didn't call her... but she showed up at my house!!! Still gonna post here though. lol
Surfer Girl Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 I felt the distance and broke up with him... It was a mutual breakup with both of us needing space... after 6 months... I saw him with another girl at a charity event... I called to talk to him... I was hurt... and wanted to get back together... he never answered... so I e-mailed him... told him how I felt... He e-mailed me back he still needed space it hurt him to much to see me....I e-mailed him back... Thank you I found the closure I needed... and have been in NC since labor day weekend...
marqueemoon4 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 psst..... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t117844/372
Marianis Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 (edited) hello .. i sent you the letter to your email.. hope it helps .. and if you can tell me what you think it would be good also.. i do want to send it to him .. but i wont hoho Good luck Edited September 30, 2011 by Marianis
NordicStripes Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 You hurt me so badly. I knew you weren't happy. And I knew it wasn't my fault. You weren't happy because you don't have a strong personality, you are lazy, you never finish something. I wanted to help you, but you didn't let me. And maybe I couldn't help you. You have to help yourself. But I thought you loved me enough to stay with me during the hard times. You didn't. I would have taken you back if you hadn't slept with that whore immediately after you broke up with me. Even if now you do everything I ask you to do, and I really believe that you want me back and that you love me. You broke something. You disgust me. What you did with her disgusts me. And I won't give us another chance unless I know that one day I won't be disgusted by you any more. It's strange. How you can love someone and be disgusted by them at the same time.
safetyv Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 hey. it was really nice to talk to you the other day, even though it was only briefly. i just want you to know that it was never my intention to use you or hurt you. im sorry that i broke up with you. i am lost at the moment. a big part of me wants you back but i dont know how long it would last? if the flames would burn as bright? i dont know... we are young. and whatever happens i want us to be friends, i really do want to give it another crack when we are older, i hope you do too. you are amazing. and i miss you.
arbrne_vet Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Dear Leach, Yes, you are a leach. i wish i could coin up a better term, but you don't deserve that. You have played me like a fool, congratulations for getting away with it for so long. I should have known from the start, that when you "needed time to get to a better place" that it meant you were just going to keep me around until something better came along. I am really angry at myself for allowing you to do this to me for so long. I should have just gone NC, and never returned any of your phone calls or texts. looking back over the past year, i can see clearly now when you were with someone else. why do i know this, because you got distant, and it was only when i had enough, that you "had time" for me. As for you "job" you were supposed to get, how did that work out for you. looks like the doctor that was arranging that got what he wanted, doesn't it!! Ya, you went out for "dinner" with a "select group" of individuals. ya, i'm sure that's what you did. you screwed him, didn't you. then, off he goes, and where is your job????? you are still there, still a loser. So.... go fu** yourself. you did good. you played me for a whole year. No, i allowed you to play me for a year. i am sure i will hear from you again. when you are all alone, and have no net to fall back on. guess what, i am not there anymore, will not be there. goodbye.
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