heartbroken555 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 ok, so i just need some various opinions This girl randomly added me on facebook, we chatted, and we talked about meeting up, bbq, club. she was pretty cute, but she had a friend that was really more my type physically,anyways i told her to bring that friend, she then deleted me... lol i guess she didnt like that... anyways a couple month go by , and one day i tell myself, hey i should just add that girl !! so i basically sent her a friend request, and a msg, explaining the hole thing, in a funny way, she replied, and we chatted ect, anyways we ended up , meeting at a club, when i arrived, she was there with a girlfriend, and i had 2 friend with me. she was pretty drunk, her friend wasnt, but we ended up all having a great night, and she strated kissing me, she told me how hot she thought i was, and how she even showed my pic to her mom before meeting me, and she was hoping i would look like my picture, anwyays. then enxt day we exchanged some txt, she was saying how sorry she was for being so drunk, and she felt really stupid , but she was happy to meet again the next day and go out The next day, she skipped me, and told me it was her sisters birthday, she couldnt make it. she didnt offer any other day to go out, and i didnt either, i just said some random joke, she laughed, with a smiley, and that was it... now its been 2 days since, and we havent spoken, i wonder what i should do. i feel like i should just wait for her to initate contact again right ? i think she just feels she went a bit to fast, by kissing me, and being drunk, humilating herself telling me showed my pic to her mom lol, and now she just wants to take a step back ?
coolheadal Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Sounds like one off but you never know? Call her up or go and see her to clear the air otherwise you'll be tearing up yourself about it..
youngskywalker Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 It's not like you're the only one who had this happen. Women can turn dead cold on the flip of a dime. It could be any number of reasons. Only thing you can do is call her up on the phone and ask her out. Plan a specific activity you think she'll like and give her a couple days notice. If she turns you down then move on. That will clear up if she's interested or not. The part about 'why' you'll never find out.
Andy_K Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Since she was so into you, she probably needed some sort of reassurance that you didn't think she was stupid, you weren't a player, etc. I don't think she got whatever she needed to feel comfortable with you, so after a little bit of internal reflection she decided to bail. With a lot of girls, things have to either go smoothly from day 1, or else they'll go cold with little hope of a turnaround. This just might be one of those girls.
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