ConfusedGuy28 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 So my buddy introduced to a friend of his (girl #2). We both really hit it off, one thing lead to another - and now we've been sleeping together about 3-4 nights a week. Before I met her, I was talking to girl #1. She's hot but very wishy washy (wants to hang out....changes her mind....then she does, then she doesn't, etc) A girl friend of mine introduced me to girl #3 - who is incredibly hot, but she lives far from here and comes to visit every once in awhile. We facebook every now and then. ----------- Well, girl #1 tells me today that "my bf is coming down to visit, maybe we should all get together this weekend" - I became extremely uninterested and just said "awesome sounds fun" - with no intent of doing anything with her ever again Well - she later texts me asking me to dinner tomorrow (to the same place I suggested we go on a date a couple weeks ago). I told her I had to pick up a friend (girl #2) and then I might be busy tomorrow. She replies back "okkkk cool guy. well i'm off tomorrow and i'll be at home, so if you want to grab dinner with me let me know" What.....the....****? If she just wants to be friends, why ask me to a date spot, why care if I was chilling with someone else? I really have very little if any interest in talking with a girl who has a bf (and my sources tell me that she HAD a bf but they broke up). Oh, and the girls are #'d just in the order I met them. Order of who I get a long with: 2 > 1, 3 Order of who is hottest: 3 > 1 > 2 Order of who I like best: 2, 3 > 1
Feelin Frisky Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Call me old fashion but if I'm into someone enough to sleep with her three or four times a week, I don't think I'd have too much concern about the other "iffy" irons in the fire. Don't you like girl #2 enough to answer your own question?
Author ConfusedGuy28 Posted September 28, 2011 Author Posted September 28, 2011 Call me old fashion but if I'm into someone enough to sleep with her three or four times a week, I don't think I'd have too much concern about the other "iffy" irons in the fire. Don't you like girl #2 enough to answer your own question? Well I'm leaving here in a few weeks....so the shelf life isn't one of super serious really. Edit: and i'm not talking about wanting to hook up with the other two. I'm not one to have MSPs (multiple sexual partners). But, it's more likely that I'd see either of them in the future (both like to travel, plan on moving, etc)
ChessPieceFace Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 What.....the....****? If she just wants to be friends, why ask me to a date spot, why care if I was chilling with someone else? I really have very little if any interest in talking with a girl who has a bf ...while you have 3 girls you've been trying to get with at once. I could tell you what you should do but it would be a rule violation.
Author ConfusedGuy28 Posted September 28, 2011 Author Posted September 28, 2011 ...while you have 3 girls you've been trying to get with at once. I could tell you what you should do but it would be a rule violation. okay tough guy Who said I was trying to get with 3 girls at once? Was supposed to hang out with girl #1 one night and she blew me off. I went out with some friends that thursday night (had friday off) - met girl #2, got trashed, and ended up in my bed. She came over friday, sunday, tuesday and thursday. All at 11pm or later. Have not gone on a "date" yet. As far as girl #3 goes, I didn't find out she was interested until a couple nights ago when she found me on facebook and sent me a message. --------- So please explain to me where I said "I'm trying to hook up with 3 girls at once" It's more like drunken sex turned into continuing to fool around afterwards. Now, we're sort of in the dating phase. And you're judging me for keeping my options open? It's not like I pursued girl #2 for a couple of weeks, went on 10 dates and said "yup, she's it"
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