AcaciaStrained Posted September 27, 2011 Posted September 27, 2011 Alright so hopefully you don't mind reading all this..... I have this friend that I have had for about 5-6 years (female btw) and we have been in pretty consistent contact for all of those years with only a half year break due to gf/bf type issues. She is no doubt a close friend and definitely my best (girl) friend that I currently have. We have had a few things happen in the past where we have liked one another but have always had one of us dating someone else or the opportunity just didn't present itself in one way or another. She has had an effect on most relationships I have had because we will hangout and flirt quite a bit at times and nothing sexual happens but still the gf's don't like it(and for good reason of course). Keep in mind though she is a big flirt in general, now the only difference is that I am the first one she calls for emotional support and to talk about guys and that sort of thing. She will tell me all details about everything that went on at any given time or any time of date/hangout/experience. Last year I told her that I think we should try to be together as it seems to me that we are so close and it seems like a good time given that we are both single. She turned down the idea because she said she would like to keep it to just friends and keeps going on dates with others. She still however tends to keep tabs on me and is semi-ok with me having dates as well but she feels that she always needs to take the superior female position if that makes sense. If I don't call her for a week she will DEFINITELY get in contact with me to talk for quite some time. It seems to me that she just is scared of us not working out but honestly I'm so confused at this point.....any opinions out there?
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