Author LoveHurts88 Posted September 28, 2011 Author Posted September 28, 2011 I think I am still with the doormat mentality because I told her that we did give it a try and maybe once she's ready to accept me for who I am maybe we can give it another try... She didn't respond this was at 2am she responded at 6am with a =) what do I do? I know I should have said what you guys told me to do but it was just so hard... I think I have to tell her now that we can't be friends until she tells me what's going on. As of right now I have a feeling she wants to get back together
Chi townD Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 As of right now I have a feeling she wants to get back together Yeah....that's called hope on your end. For her, she's just pulling on the leash to see if the dog is still there. Look dude, she broke it off with you. She decide that she wanted you out of her life and that's exactly what you should give her. How is she gonna miss you if you make yourself available anytime SHE feels like contacting YOU!
EgoJoe Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 Listen to Chi, man! Also, you need to assert your boundaries first so she doesn't come around expecting Mr. Beck and Call but comes around wondering about Mr. I'm the man! Nothing will change until you change!
Author LoveHurts88 Posted September 28, 2011 Author Posted September 28, 2011 Yeah....that's called hope on your end. For her, she's just pulling on the leash to see if the dog is still there. Look dude, she broke it off with you. She decide that she wanted you out of her life and that's exactly what you should give her. How is she gonna miss you if you make yourself available anytime SHE feels like contacting YOU! I will try my best to ignore her and let her now that she broke up with me. She tells me that she doesn't know why she can't just let me go. This sucks I guess I just can't face the facts but she did break up with me. And for all of u guys to tell me to do the same thing it must be beneficial.
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