ImageofLove Posted September 27, 2011 Posted September 27, 2011 Hi all, What do you consider a healthy sexual life in your relationship? How often do you think is normal? My friend and I were discussing this the other day. Even though we live with our long term partners we both only get time to do the deed about once a week! Thanks
arewethereyet Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 I would like to think 2-5 times a week as normal. That being said - my relationship is no where near normal
chucksagent Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 I've also heard between 2 and 5...(2 - 3 being most realistic) But really as long as both people are happy I don't think it's an issue. I had 2 female friends in college who were VERY liberal with the men they slept with...When I was still with my ex, we started our relationship having sex EVERY day and sometimes twice a day...it soon dwindled to about 4 times a week (every other day). I knew the 2 girls who were kinda slutty and was also friendly with them so I called (since they were sexperts, lol) and told them my dilemna. They were both engaged at the time and said 4 times was a LOT and they average about 1-2 times per week...They laughed at me and said "4 times??! where do you get the time and energy?!?" And those 2 girls were not friends and didnt know eachother. One was a girl I knew from high school and the other was one I met in college...and they both said THE SAME exact thing. I'm in a relationship now with a woman I value in ALL aspects - not just her beauty - and I don't even really count how often because it feels a lot more natural. I think several of my ex's I was with just because they were hot so if I wasn't getting a lot of sex maybe I felt robbed subconciously. I think you are in the normal range between 2-4 per week. But I've also heard people who go months with NO sex...so who knows!?!
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