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If i love her why do i constantly think about this other girl? ?


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Let me start this off by saying i DO smoke weed. I do have a medical card. And i don't care what your opinion on it is. So please no BS about how i should quit smoking because i don't wanna hear it.

 

I am torn between these two girls. I am with one of them but i can't stop thinking about the other.

 

There isn't going to be pictures since i respect both of these girls. And if i put pictures of both of them in the same thread and my girlfriend found this she would know it was me and cut my throat.

 

Girl 1: She is my current girlfriend. We have been going out for four years since we were seniors in high school. She has helped me through some really tough spots in life. She even bought me a suit to help me get my first job. I can tell her anything. And she doesn't stress me out about telling her why i'm upset or angry or whatever. SOmetimes she knows i just don't want to talk about it and she will just sit with me.

 

We live together now and she doesn't currently work. She does EVERYTHING around the house. If i even try to lift a finger to help her she tells me to sit down. When i come home she has a blunt ( i gotta roll it though) and a bj waiting for me. She cooks me three meals everyday. If me and her have sex and i ask her to go make me a sandwhich she goes and makes it without even thinking. And even when she works she still does all of this stuff for me.

 

The sex with her is friggin incredible. Like she was a virgin when we met. And i'm the only guy she has ever been with. So you would think she would be a prude? Shes not! Like once she warmed up to me she got freaky. And she really loves sex. Like once we get going she'll be begging me not to stop. But shes also a really nice girl. Like if you meet her you would never expect her to act like that in the bedroom which i really love. Like she can't even talk about sex unless we are doing it because she turns bright red and gets uncomfortable. But as soon as i get her ready its a different story.

 

The only thing i don't like about her is that she doesn't have any ambition. She always pushes me to be the best me. But she never pushes herself. She thinks that she is stupid. So she never even applied to a college. When she works she always gets secretary or waitress jobs. She never wants to push herself. And shes content with doing nothing. Like she doesn't have a goal in life.

 

Girl 2: Her and my current girl tie as far as sexiness goes. But this girl is crazy confident which i love. When we were in high school and all the other girls were falling for me and my friends she saw right through our games. And the first time i met her she told me i was ugly lol. Me and her went out for almost 8 months but then lost touch when i got arrested and sent to bootcamp. We go to the same college now. And she has A LOT of ambition. She wants to be a doctor just like me. And me and her can sit and have friendly debates over everything for hours. And i like that she has an opinion. Since my girl will just take anything that i say as fact. She'll never try to argue with me she'll just agree.

 

Unlike my girl she doesn't smoke weed. Which is cool i guess because she never really got on me about my smoking. She is also kinda boring in the sack. i mean when i slept with her we were 16-17 but still. She also has had sex with other guys. Idk how many but that kinda turns me off a bit.

 

 

I know i want girl 1. I know i wanna marry girl 1. But i can't get girl 2 off of my mind. Who do you think sounds like the better chick? What should i do?

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"You want what you can't have"

 

 

"The grass is always greener"

 

 

 

"Guys who are single want to be in a relationship, guys in a relationship wish they are more free time like when they are single"

 

 

 

 

Catch my drift?

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"You want what you can't have"

 

 

"The grass is always greener"

 

 

 

"Guys who are single want to be in a relationship, guys in a relationship wish they are more free time like when they are single"

 

 

 

 

Catch my drift?

I guess. So i'm never gonna be happy with her?

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