Author ASensitiveGuy Posted September 28, 2011 Author Posted September 28, 2011 I did find out something today that may or may not add to this situation. Let me explain. Sherry used to be overweight (before I met her), well she decided to have a gastric bypass surgery about 3 years ago. Even though she had the surgery, she never had the excess skin removed, and when we first got together this was something that really bothered her. I found out today (from my sister) that Sherry had surgery on Monday to get that excess skin removed, but she didn't tell me about that so I'm not supposed to know. I just wonder if this could have anything to do with her wanting some "time" and saying she can't "put what she wants to put into the relationship" right now? This detail might add to some of the uncertanty.....
antz2411 Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 dood she obviously doesn't want you to see her on her worst. relax bro she'll come back. you have all the signs in the world for reconciliation but here you still are trying to over analyze your situation because of your selfish needs to erase the pain you're suffering from. how about you say a prayer for her man! relax
Author ASensitiveGuy Posted September 28, 2011 Author Posted September 28, 2011 dood she obviously doesn't want you to see her on her worst. relax bro she'll come back. you have all the signs in the world for reconciliation but here you still are trying to over analyze your situation because of your selfish needs to erase the pain you're suffering from. how about you say a prayer for her man! relax Believe me I am. I'm just saying this makes a little more sense, and the thing is I do have a habit of over anaylyzing things. I woke up this afternoon (I work nights so I go to bed at 6:30am) feeling really bad (it seems I feel worse when I wake up). There's no way to "erase" the pain, but I do find myself doing the "what if's" if you know what I mean (and I'm sure I'm not alone on that.) When I found this out today my sister said "Don't you tell her I told you this. I'm only telling you because I know you have been hurting and I'm hoping this will put you at ease so you can get all this other crap out of your mind and can understand what is going on here." So now I can understand with everything else we talked about, now she has this. It does make it easier knowing this. As I said before she was very self concious about the skin....hopefully this will make her feel better. I'm praying for her (not just for me but also because I want her to feel good about herself).
Eddie Edirol Posted September 28, 2011 Posted September 28, 2011 I did find out something today that may or may not add to this situation. Let me explain. Sherry used to be overweight (before I met her), well she decided to have a gastric bypass surgery about 3 years ago. Even though she had the surgery, she never had the excess skin removed, and when we first got together this was something that really bothered her. I found out today (from my sister) that Sherry had surgery on Monday to get that excess skin removed, but she didn't tell me about that so I'm not supposed to know. I just wonder if this could have anything to do with her wanting some "time" and saying she can't "put what she wants to put into the relationship" right now? This detail might add to some of the uncertanty..... YOu have to plan that kind of surgery at least a month in advance. If she wanted to improve her looks to please you, she would have told you she planned this long ago. SO, she had the surgery to make herself look better for someone, or to put herself back on the market. You think a woman break it off with you because of finances, unemployment, problems with her brother weighing her head down, and then plan out a surgery at the same time, but not tell you about it, when she wants to continue the relationship?
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