sadmomma4 Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 I have been with my husband for 12yrs married for almost 10. My husband and i have just grown apart. We sleep in the same bed, but opposite sides. We sleep so far apart that we don't touch each other, and even use separate blankets. We have sex about once every 1-2 months. Of course he doesn't even touch me or even try to turn me on. He tries to make it go as fast as he can to get it over with. I tried talking to him about it but he gets mad and won't talk to me the rest of the day or night. We did separate for a while and i got with someone else. Well that turned out to be very abusive and the samething went on. He wouldn't touch me and only worried about himself when it came to sex. My husband and I decided to try it out but right away we don't talk, and he is very distant. I asked him to do marriage counseling and he got very mad. I know he is not cheating. I have access to all money, and I take him to and from work everyday. I even told him i bought a sexy night gown (something I would NEVER do) and all he could say is that it wasn't that sexy. So what am I doing wrong? It has to be me, because i have been with two guys now that have treated me the same way. I don't know what to do. Any advice would be great. thank you
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