Conscience Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 I've been seing this girl for more then two months. Are situations are somwhat complicated with shared custody etc. We both met on a Online dating site and at first we where both open and talked about other dates we where on etc. Now we don't talk about that and we see eachother as much as we can, lets say she makes up time for me it seems. We email every day and she even sends me a good night email and a good morning email ..... Im comming out of a divorce and im scared as Im starting to feel something for this girl....sometimes Im confident she does to but other days I feel that she doesnt as I still see her online on the dating site almost every day! What does that meen? What does this meen? Should I take a step back? Or a step forward?
praxisdorian Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 First off, it usually takes 3 to 5 years to heal from a divorce. Seeing that you have already begun a relationship, there is bound to be baggage... lots of it. In all likelyhood, you will wind up making the very same mistakes you made in your first mariage. I'm not suggesting that the divorce was your fault. But, regardless of whom the wounded party is, you played a part. So, it's normal for you to feel some trepidation. You weren't ready for this.
Author Conscience Posted September 26, 2011 Author Posted September 26, 2011 Thanks for opening my eyes.
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