CSer Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 My girlfriend of 2 years and I broke up a month ago. I'm not sure why I'm starting to feel the loss now, it could be that the months leading up to the break up was filled with arguments and fights.. even over petty things. I just felt relief at the loss of burden when it finally ended. The past month have been absolutely fine for me, I was surprised at how well I took it, I didn't shed any tears or have any depressive thoughts at all... till this past weekend. I been crying nonstop for 2 days, I keep remembering all the good memories that we had and wish I can and re-live them again, go back and fix the times that I treated her bad.. I miss her so bad right now. I feel like I don't realize how much she really meant to me till now. It seems the feelings of loss and sadness is especially strong at night...
sleepykitten Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 maybe you were in the denial phase? Who broke up with who? My ex, who left me said he didnt feel it till the 2nd month and then it hit him, he rebounded with someone else though to "fill the hole" on day 3 anyway, i guess people handle stuff differently. Break ups tend to be a rollercoaster of a ride emotionally.
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