cincy_one Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 Posted on here before,everyone on here helped me through my ex GF breaking up with me after 6yrs.Havent lived with her for 7mos,I still care for her alot,but it is over..She has moved on and someone else lives with her now.(I just found out)The water bill was in my name as she owed them some money and couldnt put it in her name..Last tuesday I called her and told her as of friday the bill needs to be put in someone elses name as I dont want it in my name anymore..( i dont pay the bill for her),but since someone else was living there now..I just felt all ties no matter what needed to be broken...Needless to say i guess she didnt take me serious and the water was shut off on friday as she never called to have it taken care of..She called me all kinds of names and wished I would kill myself as im worthless and I left her and her 2 kids without water for the weekend..She also sent me an email telling me how in love she is with this new guy....Bottomline...WAS I MEAN TO DO THIS..Its been 7mos..She doesnt want anything to do with me,why should i have a anything to do with her.....Please be honest if i was wrong getting it out of my name
rubberball Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 the only thing you did wrong was to wait 7 months. My ex's cable was in my name and it took me two weeks to get that fixed and I thought that was too long. After a breakup grownups need to take care of their own stuff. If my ex always did the dishes when we were together and then we breakup - I now have to do the dishes. people need to take care of there own business.
Dark Phoenix Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 you were wrong to wait so long before taking your name off that bill, that should have been done immediately after the breakup/moving out. No you are not wrong in taking your name off of that bill, you don't live there so you shouldn't have your name on any of that stuff. As for her telling you about her new boyfriend and insulting you: just proves that you are better off without her. you don't need someone as immature as she is in your life.
Unrequitedlove Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 Absolutely not! You did what you had to do, regardless if you waited too long to do it. She seems to be a spiteful, immature individual and it serves her right.
Lucio Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 No u did nothing wrong. I think the new guy is shameless for having left their bill in ur name for 7 mths! Some ppl r just warped n so whatever they think of u doesn't matter. We all know who is the wrong one here. They can live in their own messed up thinking.
lucacoleman Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 There is nothing wrong with what you did. You only did what is right and you should not be held responsible for them going out of water. In the first place, you mentioned it to her and you made an effort to let her know about it. But she didn't do anything to fix the situation so its actually her fault. Even if you did not get your exback, you are better of without her and you can totally get a much better girl than her.
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