bdbmwer Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I know many will look down upon me for getting upset over such a short relationship but i feel this info is important for a proper response. We talked for a month before dating for 2. Me and my gf decided to go on "break" (i dont buy that BS anymore) last friday. went to the fball game saturday and she texted and called me monday asking to hang out because her class got cancelled before our class together after which I initated NC (go me! ) I removed her from facebook on friday night. its going to be a week of NC tomorrow and i was considering at first asking her to talk after class and telling her that i just needed time to figure things out during NC and that my phones always open to her and ill always be here for her . then i realized thats a terrible idea because my idea of friendship evolving into a reconciliation this soon is a total misconception. Ive been nothing but happy and well groomed in front of her in class and i have a feeling things are getting to her because when asked whether she ever thought about getting back with me by a friend at dinner she said crudely "no" which i see as a defense mechanism. as well as "you can have him" so now given that background I come to my actual question . Should i still talk to her tomorrow and tell her that I just cant wait any longer and that im moving on to remove the wind from her sails and make her wonder why i changed my mind so quickly using counter-rejection? or should I just continue on with my life and let NC run its course. Little interesting tidbit. her parents took away texting from her for dumping me and our class days are monday wensday late in the evening. any response good or bad is appreciated thank you
shygal1 Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 if it were me i'd act really busy , and not very interested .. let her come back to you ... since she did the leaving in order for it to work she has to feel the lost .. but if she talks to u be polite and short
Author bdbmwer Posted September 26, 2011 Author Posted September 26, 2011 ok thank you for the response i got the whole idea from http://www.getherback.com/girlfriend-wants-a-break.php but i noticed it says to do that after shes contacted me from no contact?. Is it weird for her to not have contacted me by now? and is me being out of the picture for too long going to result in out of sight out of mind since our relationship was so short lived, yet the longest one shes had to date? all these questions are eating away at me
Author bdbmwer Posted September 26, 2011 Author Posted September 26, 2011 figured it better to ask here than a entire new thread. It seems like everyone always plays up NC as the answer to every situation but i know that if i were to call my ex right now that she would answer and probably even be friendly. On the other hand people say to no matter what wait for her to contact me but what if shes the kind of person with an ego problem around breaking up which i know from a past story of hers and will not phone first no matter how bad she wants to
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