Angeluvspie Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 (edited) Ok so I'm 13 and in the 8th grade. I know this is going to sound stupid but read anyway plz. Anyway, so 2 years ago I was bullied because of a stupid rumor that ended with the whole 6th grade hating me and I had no friends. I was punched, kicked, hit, even spit on because they said I was trash. In the same year my parents divorced and my dad was dating someone else for 3 years and didn't tell me. So the next year for some reason they all forgot what they did to me (except the main ones) but I still couldn't forgive them and I went through depression and got eating problems(at first I ate to much to get my mind off it then in 7th grade I didn't eat at all). I thought about killing myself multiple times. I ended up that year being the quiet, shy (even though I'm not) girl because I didn't want to talk to anyone. So back to the boy problem, there's this after school program for military kids and when I was in 7th grade he was in 8th and we were both in it. We never talked to each other, I don't even think he knows I exist. My point is he's my first real guy I really like, might even love (I know I'm young but still). Ever since I've been in 8th grade I fixed myself up, talk more to people (the ones I don't hate,) and did a reality check with my life. When he was middle school (he's in high school now) (oh and he's considered the "popular guy" but to me he's really sweet, well it looks like it) he saw me at my worst and never my best. I like him too much now even though he's gone. (the highschool he goes 2 is literally in front of my school). How do I stop liking him because why love someone that will probably never love u back??? Please help and take seriously, i know it sounds crazy but thats why I need help!!! Edited March 20, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
january2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Unless your emotions are affecting your life so much that you cannot function during your daily activities and maintain your own wellbeing, I would just let the emotions ride themselves out. Having crushes during your school years and even in adulthood is very common and normal.
Eddie Edirol Posted September 27, 2011 Posted September 27, 2011 Make your best effort not to see him, and then find another boy to crush on. Talking to new people will make that old feeling go away.
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