AngelaT Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Bf broke up with me nearly five months ago saying he needed time. He called once and averages 3~4 days between texts lately when at first he would only respond if I texted. I'm frustrated. Enough with the texting already! so I figure if he loves me, w I'm not which I suspect he does, he will step up and call, come over...something or if he doesn't, he will go away. Thoughts??
Treasa Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Move on with your life. He's an acquaintance at this point. Friends on Facebook who I almost never see in real life will contact me more than that via text or FB. I don't think you have anything going on with this guy, and the next time he texts, maybe you should tell him to stop, as you're not interested anymore and are moving on with your life.
shygal1 Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 possibly he either had a rebound that didnt work out .. or he realizes he misses u and is seeing if u will respond .. i guess i would ask what's up... do u wanna be friends ... whats your deal ... dont be too serious about it .. but ask for some clarity on the situation ... but not like in an attack mode . casually
Lucio Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 That's what they call breadcrumbs here. Don't read too much into it. See, if a guy likes a girl v much n she doesn't comprehend his signals he will come out w clearer signals. For u, if u think it's nothing u don't lose out if it's nothing. If he does something more then u can be pleasantly surprised.
Author AngelaT Posted September 26, 2011 Author Posted September 26, 2011 That's what I figured Lucio. I'm tired of this cat and mouse thing. I figure if he really loves me, and I don't respond to his texts he'll do something else to get my attention, if he really wants it. We had an awesome relationship until he freaked out (long story of issues) but he's not been able to truly cut me off. So I figure NC is the way to go until he really "steps up" and I hope and pray he does. On the other hand, if he doesn't I'm not living my life in limbo waiting for him and thinking "what is he thinking when he texts this" ya know. I am ignoring his texts and if he does call his call is sent directly to my voice mail. I would call him back if he left a message (that would be huge if he did, he's not a VM person). So, thanks all!
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