Woggle Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Some women have made their feelings on men clear. We are overgrown babies who don't do our share and do nothing but destroy a woman's independence and happiness. Living with us and being with us is a misery and you can go on and on. If this is how they really feel about shouldn't they be glad that many of us are looking at our porn and playing our video games and leaving them the hell alone? If men want to find some joy without women why is this a bad thing since all we hear about is how happier they are without men? Why not let men have our happiness with porn and leave women alone?
LoveandSuch Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Well I have a question for all the guys who think that all women have a problem with porn. Why is it that it is okay for you to have your porn, but in my case I have seen men 100% jealous of my own personal collection with my favorite performers that mixes well with my silver bullet. Men get all moody and jealous about it too? Why is this?
torn_curtain Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Stop speaking for my gender. I don't feel this way at all. I prefer being in a relationship with a guy I love to being alone. Some guys ARE miserable, but that's beside the point. I also don't mind if a guy I'm seeing looks at porn as long as he isn't addicted to it.
Cee Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I had an ex who was addicted to porn. He also crossed the line in our marriage and had an affair. I was a little afraid of porn, but have actually made peace with it. Now and again, I watch porn myself. I'm glad that my boyfriend isn't watching porn 6 hours a day and sleeping with his high school sweetheart like my ex did. But I am absolutely fine with him watching porn, as long as it's legal and in moderation. His porn use is his business unless it becomes a problem I notice in our relationship. But he's not a sex addict like my ex was. So I'm perfectly fine with it. I know Woggle's question wasn't directed to me since I'm not a man hating woman, but I thought I'd share the perspective of someone who lived with a sex addict.
johan Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Some women have made their feelings on men clear. We are overgrown babies who don't do our share and do nothing but destroy a woman's independence and happiness. Living with us and being with us is a misery and you can go on and on. If this is how they really feel about shouldn't they be glad that many of us are looking at our porn and playing our video games and leaving them the hell alone? If men want to find some joy without women why is this a bad thing since all we hear about is how happier they are without men? Why not let men have our happiness with porn and leave women alone? What difference does it make what "some women" think or feel or say? I would never base any decision I make on what "some women" want. Those "some women" just won't be a part of my life. Of course, I would never plant my flag on pornography. There are other things that are actually important and beneficial that I will make my stand for, if I have to. "Some women" can kiss my a** if they don't approve.
Jynxx Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 First of all, those "some women" are a tiny minority. Of course many women like to whine about stuff like that every so often, but that's not what they really think. Secondly, why do you care if someone who dislikes you think you deserve porn and videogames or not? Thirdly, if "all you hear about" is how happy women are without men, then you're either suffering from some extremely biassed memory or are hanging out at some weird places. Which brings me to my next point. Woggle, I think you have serious issues and you should spend time with a professional therapist instead of on this board. This isn't an insult, just an observation.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Not all women are against pornography. Some watch it, too. Just thought I'd bring that up into play.
FrustratedStandards Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 If a woman has that kind of attitude then why is she dating someone in the first place? I don't understand women like that.
soserious1 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Some women have made their feelings on men clear. We are overgrown babies who don't do our share and do nothing but destroy a woman's independence and happiness. Living with us and being with us is a misery and you can go on and on. If this is how they really feel about shouldn't they be glad that many of us are looking at our porn and playing our video games and leaving them the hell alone? If men want to find some joy without women why is this a bad thing since all we hear about is how happier they are without men? Why not let men have our happiness with porn and leave women alone? I have no issue with a man who chooses to spend his time surfing for porn & playing video games just as long as he isn't expecting me to pay his bills.
january2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Woggle, do you want to have your happiness with porn and leave your partner alone? If not, where is this coming from?
madjac74 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Not all women are against pornography. Some watch it, too. Just thought I'd bring that up into play. My recent GF watched it all the time and we had many conversations and laughs about porn and all the weird and funny situations we have seen in them. Of course, we were in a LDR so I had no problem with her watching porn and taking care of her needs that way. But mostly it was just a funny topic to discuss. I remember when we first started dating and she asked me if I watched porn and of course I gave the usual male response and tried to play it down like "Oh every once in awhile" She instantly said "I love it. I watch it all the time" Haha I knew i had a keeper
Taramere Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 "Some women" can kiss my a** if How disgusting. I clicked on this porn question thread from Woggle in the hopes of reading some pleasant, amiable and enlightening discussion. Instead, here you are spreading salad tossing fantasy filth all over the place.
madjac74 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 (edited) How disgusting. I clicked on this porn question thread from Woggle in the hopes of reading some pleasant, amiable and enlightening discussion. Instead, here you are spreading salad tossing fantasy filth all over the place. Haha! Everyone has there own porn category they like to frequent. He was just expressing his favorite. I just wonder if his ideal salad tosser is a girl, guy or maybe both Edited September 25, 2011 by madjac74 salad not solid
Author Woggle Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 Woggle, do you want to have your happiness with porn and leave your partner alone? If not, where is this coming from? I read all the time how this is what women think of men so if they really think that low of us why not let us have fun with our porn and leave them alone?
january2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I read all the time how this is what women think of men so if they really think that low of us why not let us have fun with our porn and leave them alone? Woggle, what I'm trying to get at is that if this is not how your partner feels about you, why is it a problem that some women think it about men in general, which by definition might or might not include you?
Elysian Powder Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Some women have made their feelings on men clear. We are overgrown babies who don't do our share and do nothing but destroy a woman's independence and happiness. Living with us and being with us is a misery and you can go on and on. If this is how they really feel about shouldn't they be glad that many of us are looking at our porn and playing our video games and leaving them the hell alone? If men want to find some joy without women why is this a bad thing since all we hear about is how happier they are without men? Why not let men have our happiness with porn and leave women alone? Porn doesn't pay for women's child-support and alimony, and how can porn fill a woman with security and man-power for whatever use she might have for our muscles or brain? Notice how the real addiction to porn manifests itself mostly in married men - the guys who are legally chained to a vagina that now no longer opens itself to the husband? 'em women don't care about porn IF the golden goose has been captured already.
Untouchable_Fire Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I attended a work party 6 months ago and wound up sitting with a large number of female colleagues. One was explaining how disgusting she felt knowing that her boyfriend had once owned and used a blowup doll for masturbatory purposes. Every woman at the table wrinkled her nose and agreed that it's simply nasty for a guy to do something like that. I scratched my head and asked the lady if she owned a dildo... and she replied that she in fact owned two. I think hypocrisy is such a natural state for most women they fail to even notice it.
madjac74 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I read all the time how this is what women think of men so if they really think that low of us why not let us have fun with our porn and leave them alone? Because being with an actual women is much more amazing. And the reason most women have a problem with it is because there are men who neglect the feelings of their woman because they need their porn fix. Or men are so caught up with porn that they expect their woman to act like pornstars do (taking it up the butt and other things that good women do not appreciate) and when their woman doesn't portray a pornstar the man gets mad.
Author Woggle Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 Because being with an actual women is much more amazing. And the reason most women have a problem with it is because there are men who neglect the feelings of their woman because they need their porn fix. Or men are so caught up with porn that they expect their woman to act like pornstars do (taking it up the butt and other things that good women do not appreciate) and when their woman doesn't portray a pornstar the man gets mad. If they would rather live without men anyway why do they care?
Elysian Powder Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 (edited) I attended a work party 6 months ago and wound up sitting with a large number of female colleagues. One was explaining how disgusting she felt knowing that her boyfriend had once owned and used a blowup doll for masturbatory purposes. Every woman at the table wrinkled her nose and agreed that it's simply nasty for a guy to do something like that. I scratched my head and asked the lady if she owned a dildo... and she replied that she in fact owned two. I think hypocrisy is such a natural state for most women they fail to even notice it. hypocrisy? No. It's all about power and survival; most women had absolute power over the sexuality of men, right before porn, prostitution, and even religion were created. Without a man's interest in a woman's sex; what can a woman offer to a man? Love? LOL Something I noticed when I visited the uk. Women will (try) insult men by calling them ''wankers''. Well, most people masturbate, but women refined a natural act into a sort of shaming tool; the time the man is spending on masturbation is time(and resources) not spent on a woman, a state of things that women abhor. Because being with an actual women is much more amazing And far more risky; stds, child-support, alimony, false rape-reports, and sexual addiction. Any smart man is not going to make sex or women his focus on life. Edited September 25, 2011 by Elysian Powder
oaks Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I attended a work party 6 months ago and wound up sitting with a large number of female colleagues. One was explaining how disgusting she felt knowing that her boyfriend had once owned and used a blowup doll for masturbatory purposes. Every woman at the table wrinkled her nose and agreed that it's simply nasty for a guy to do something like that. I scratched my head and asked the lady if she owned a dildo... and she replied that she in fact owned two. I think hypocrisy is such a natural state for most women they fail to even notice it. I'm assuming that you're saying that the woman in your anecdote failed to notice the hypocrisy of what she was saying. What happened when you pointed it out to her? Did she shrug her shoulders and say "ahh, good point" or was it more like "but that isn't the same thing at all"?
madjac74 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 If they would rather live without men anyway why do they care? When is this the case? I think most of us joke about being able to live without the other sex but I doubt there is any truth to it. In reality, we like what the other gender has to offer us.
oaks Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Something I noticed when I visited the uk. Women will (try) insult men by calling them ''wankers''. Well, most people masturbate, but women refined a natural act into a sort of shaming tool; the time the man is spending on masturbation is time(and resources) not spent on a woman, a state of things that women abhor. Living here myself, I can report that "wankers" isn't solely used by women. (Nor is it solely directed at men, although that's more common than it being directed at women.)
Elysian Powder Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I'm assuming that you're saying that the woman in your anecdote failed to notice the hypocrisy of what she was saying. What happened when you pointed it out to her? Did she shrug her shoulders and say "ahh, good point" or was it more like "but that isn't the same thing at all"? Probably another case of cognitive dissonance. Quite like a woman who sleeps with a womanizer then trows a tantrum when she finds out that he was sleeping with other women, and proceeds into showing the victim card.
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