redwhiteandgreen Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 My BF and I work together and are very much out as a couple. We attend work events together, hold hands, attentive to each other, etc. We are madly in love and we don't hide it, our co-workers have been great about respecting our relationship except one new one... But I am posting here for advice because I don't know if it's just me being possessive, overly vigilant, paranoid or if she actually is over-stepping her boundaries... Here are the three incidents thus far: (1) At a beginning of year event 2 weeks ago she walked up to both of us but only introduced herself to my BF, not to me. She started chatting him up until he interrupted and turned to me to introduce me. She acknowledged me and continued making conversation with him. (2) At a work evening event 1 week ago she walked up to us, didn't acknowledge me again, and said to my BF that she was going to email him for a recommendation for a personal trainer (my BF trains) as she is looking for a trainer. She put her arm around him, laughed about being behind on her training, and patted him in the shoulder as she walked away. No hello or goodbye to me, I was right there. We were holding hands. (3) She emailed him very late that same night for the recommendation. It was a "chatty" email in that she was also making conversation. My BF responded with the reference and that was it. I trust him 100% - but I don't want this woman thinking she now has a new buddy (my BF) without making an attempt to even talk to me. She just started working with us and we do have a friend in common who I am tempted to call and inquire about who this new girl is and what she's all about. I do know she' single and looking. So... THOUGHTS?????? ADVICE????????
worlybear Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 She's cruising after your man. Confront her asap! Hugs :bunny::bunny:
Author redwhiteandgreen Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 Ha! I thought so... She'll get nowhere fast with him, we are very in love and very considerate of each other's feelings. There is a group of us younger ladies at work that are great friends, plan outings, provide strong support systems for one another - if she hopes to be included and be part of this she'll have to revisit her approach with my BF...
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