tehsensitive1 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Continuing from http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3310486#post3310486 Hey there fellas its me again... Wow is all i can say!! Time sure does fly when your going on about your days and moving on in life. The last time I was here was a month or two ago and boy have I recovered from my last breakup. Not completely but about 85% recovered. If you read my main post my heart was broken to little pieces by some chick.. I took it so hard because it was my actual first love and we lasted about 4 yrs. The problem was we were young that is all. Fast forward till now, I think its been about 6 months since my breakup and considering my first post i'm doing ten times better. Juggling school, work, being a new home owner, running a successful site, and keeping up with this new girl is making me old :-p. Enough talk, now a bit of advice for you guys going through a hard time. After being dumped I learned a valuable lesson, Friends. There are some who say "f it lets go drinking", theres the ones who help you talk about it, and there are those you can let the tears out with.. Friends is what you need during those hard times. Don't hold it in and go talk to your friends and family. They truly do help! Action.. Take action and don't sit around and weep in sorrow forever, I admit I did for the first couple of weeks because my whole schedule changed but like i said take control and take action in making yourself happy again. Assess your situation and take control of it. Stand strong go out and enjoy the little things in life, sit outside and enjoy the sun, the air, and be happy you made it another day. After a breakup I know your thinking a buncha random a stuff but like I said assess the situation and take action to better your life and yourself. Move On: Yeah she left for a reason and if everything was fine in the relationship then she obviously thinks she found someone better.. Don't worry as if she can do that, you too can also find better! Go complete no contact!! I called the second day she left me, came to this site and read the rules and i haven't talked to her since. I have really honestly not given her the time of day and still have her blocked on fbook. When she leaves you its done, if she does it once she'll do it again years later so save yourself the time and heart break. There's much more to this but I have no time.. Stay up guys i'll be back soon, maybe tonight and finish up my write up. If you've recently been dumped don't worry, your only young and of all the millions of people in the world theres that perfect someone for you!
M2155 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 After being dumped I learned a valuable lesson, Friends. There are some who say "f it lets go drinking", theres the ones who help you talk about it, and there are those you can let the tears out with.. Friends is what you need during those hard times. Don't hold it in and go talk to your friends and family. They truly do help!! This is so true. Congrats for getting yourself back on track:bunny:
TheDovic Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Really nice positive thread dude. Cheers
Unrequitedlove Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 This truly made my day. I no longer hope to win my ex back, I now hope to be where you are.
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