aguy205 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Have you ever had "what if's" about someone, up to a year later? About a year ago, I met a girl through a mutual friend. We hung out 15-20 times with friends. I know she was interested, but I wasn't available at the time, so we never dated or anything. But I was interested in her, so we exchanged numbers. That group of friends drifted apart. A month later, I tried calling her several times, but never got a pick up. I was hurt because I really liked her. But I assumed she wasn't interested anymore, and have since moved on. No communication in about a year, and now she just called me 3(!) times this past week. I didn't pick up because I'm hesitant to reopen that can of worms. Also, I have since moved out of town and she knows that. I'm really surprised and confused about her calling a year later. Especially since we never even knew each other that well. More of acquaintances I'd say. But I'm still interested and her persistence is making me rethink this. Thoughts?
silly_panda Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Call her back and see where it goes from there... Get to know her more...
aerogurl87 Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 Definitely call her back and see what happens. If she's calling you a year then you really must have made a good impression.
lucacoleman Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 I think its about time to call her back and get her back into your life. You wouldn't want to spend more years thinking about what ifs in your life so just go ahead and find out if there is something for the future for the two of you.
smudge21 Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 I hate what ifs and regrets, they so hold me back sometimes. If you're pondering this so much that you had to post it here, then I'd say call her and say hi. You have no idea what's going on, so just be polite and find out.
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