mridul_chajilee Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Just create this thread to want to know the numbers of DUMPER and DUMPEE here. By this we will know that we are not the only DUMPEE in this world. DUMPERs are also welcome in this thread if they do not feel shy. So,caste your valuable VOTE.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 Here i am:DUMPEE. I think the total result will be reciprocal to each other.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 I think DUMPERs are noticing us.Lol.
TheDovic Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Dumpee... don't think dumpers care enough to go on sites like this
smudge21 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I'm here because I am a dumpee, but I have been a dumper in the past. Although I've never done it in a nasty way, although it's obviously caused upset. Interesting point is that I'm friends to this day with the girls who I've dumped, but not with the ones that dumped me.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 @TheDovic,you are right.They have no such anxity dats we have.
silly_panda Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I've been the dumper before... But came here because I was the dumpee...
TheStylist Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Dumper here... I did that to save myself and us.. And until now, I miss the person so bad it hurts like hell... But staying with him will be futile and just a waste of time... Today is the toughest day. I've been itching the whole day to call/text him. I couldn't even do my work and had to sit and take deep breaths most of the time to stop myself from contacting him... God, I'm so sad!
SillyS Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Number 9! I have been in this forum for about 3 months now, and I think the last time I saw a dumper was that girl that mistreated some guy and regretted her decision. Let's just say, she was crucified. There is simply more dumpees, so it's a very anti-dumpers environment. Yesterday was my birthday, and my dumper did not even say happy birthday in any way or form. How rude!
Mack05 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 4 serious relationships...3 time dumper, one time dumpee ;-) Hoping it's 5th time lucky and 5 is my favourite number!
TheStylist Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Number 9! I have been in this forum for about 3 months now, and I think the last time I saw a dumper was that girl that mistreated some guy and regretted her decision. Let's just say, she was crucified. There is simply more dumpees, so it's a very anti-dumpers environment. Yesterday was my birthday, and my dumper did not even say happy birthday in any way or form. How rude! I dumped my ex 2 days before his birthday and I never greeted him on his birthday. What for? Why pretend to care? I caught him cheating and he was in rage and hung up on me and texted me F*** You. So, why would I give in just because it was his birthday? No excuses for this, I guess.
SillyS Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I dumped my ex 2 days before his birthday and I never greeted him on his birthday. What for? Why pretend to care? I caught him cheating and he was in rage and hung up on me and texted me F*** You. So, why would I give in just because it was his birthday? No excuses for this, I guess. But I didn't cheat on anyone. But thank you for your point. He doesn't care as a dumper, so I shouldn't expect anything from him at all. I had a lovely birthday, so it's not like I sat around giving a f** about him really. Just noticed before I head to bed that he never messaged me nor did anyone from his family.
M2155 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Dumpee. I've been a dumpee before too but it never hurt/affected me as much as this time so I guess that's why I came looking for support/answers. I've never participated in a forum before and honestly it is very consoling to give opinions and share experiences with others (so thank you all!!). It's amazing how human behavior can be so similar with relationships all across the world. We probably wouldn't get along in real life:lmao:
TheStylist Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 Am I the only dumper here? Guess, I could be both.. I feel like more of a dumpee since he cheated.. And 4hours after I broke it off, he is back with his ex... The very ex he bad mouthed for months! Why some ppl do these? Are they this weak and no self respect at all? Oh god! I woke up this morning thinking about calling him just to mess up his head, to get even! Oh god, I'm sorry.. Just venting!
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