Women smell Dating/Marriage Potential...Can be seen by their attraction to you right?

[quietGuy13]

I'm never appraochaed, never even looked at by women. Ever!!

 

And it makes sense. I'm not dateable and not attractive and not marriage material. I wonder what gives it away. Maybe i look too depressed and women know its' cause i dont have a job? Or also i look shy even if they haven't met me they can tell, right?

 

I heard the thing about Women's intuition. I guess women have magical powers to know if guys are worth it.

 

I tell you, not a single girl ever looks at me, or seems like interested.

For example, i heard that women who are attracted to you give off signs like playing with their hair etc... or blush..

 

Has never happened to me in 30 + years.

[january2011]

Last time I was on this forum on a regular basis, you were making good progress in approaching girls yourself. What happened to that progress?

[AHardDaysNight]

Women usually smell like roses.

[quietGuy13]

Last time I was on this forum on a regular basis, you were making good progress in approaching girls yourself. What happened to that progress?

 

i got a friend and she's my nice friend but I know i dnt have potential to be a BF plus i have many problems in life. Girls dont' like me. This one just likes me as a friend.

[january2011]

From someone who started with being afraid to talk to girls and make friends. That is a brilliant start. Now go make some more friends. Build up your social circle.

[SJC2008]

First of all, most women don't approach men. Secondly your right about women being very instictive, but at the same time they are very bad judges of character IMO. I'm sure you've read a cocky guy vs nice guy thread or two. Cocky=confidence. That sends a subconscious signal they are not aware of that tells them the man is strong, ie a good provider, will protect the children (remember we are just sophisticated animals) attracting them more. Sound stupid but it's pretty much scientific fact. Google it and google eye contact with women and see the tons of articles it comes up with. Now on the character judge part, just remember how many "he wont commit", "been together x time and he won't propose" threads you have seen, because they go with instinct over logic. Not trying to bash women, there are many great ones out there.

[Elysian Powder]

Women usually smell like roses.

 

That's the result of spraying their bodies with perfume. Wait until a pack of women goes past you; you won't be able to say when the perfume starts and when the women's real smell comes in.

Edited September 25, 2011 by Elysian Powder

[Cee]

I have probably read 100+ of your posts and I can't get a good read on what your main issues are. The more I read your posts, the more I feel like you are greatly exaggerating your difficulties. All of us have our physical and personality flaws. There is no point on harping on your weak spots. Build upon your strengths and assets.

 

I think it's time to stop this cycle of self-diagnosing and hate. You need an objective opinion. I suggest you go back to that speech therapist you liked and see her on a regular basis. She seemed interested in working on your issues in totality.

 

It takes a long time to do personal growth. I think the first step is to get a real awareness on what your issues are. And I think you need an objective opinion from a trained professional.

 

I'm not saying not to post on Love Shack, but this forum is not enough. You need face-to-face support. I hope my feedback helps.

[rafallus]

That's the result of spraying their bodies with perfume. Wait until a pack of women goes past you; you won't be able to say when the perfume starts and when the women's real smell comes in.

 

Nope.

 

It's a shampoo. Smells stays in hair much longer than perfume. Yes, quite obviously checked by myself. Try it as well.

[udolipixie]

I'm never appraochaed, never even looked at by women. Ever!!

 

And it makes sense. I'm not dateable and not attractive and not marriage material. I wonder what gives it away. Maybe i look too depressed and women know its' cause i dont have a job? Or also i look shy even if they haven't met me they can tell, right?

 

I heard the thing about Women's intuition. I guess women have magical powers to know if guys are worth it.

 

I tell you, not a single girl ever looks at me, or seems like interested.

For example, i heard that women who are attracted to you give off signs like playing with their hair etc... or blush..

 

Has never happened to me in 30 + years.

 

More like some women can smell dating/marriage potential in a guy they find attractive...so if you're not attractive to them most likely they're not even going to bother sniffing you out unless you approach them.

[udolipixie]

First of all, most women don't approach men. Secondly your right about women being very instictive, but at the same time they are very bad judges of character IMO. I'm sure you've read a cocky guy vs nice guy thread or two. Cocky=confidence. That sends a subconscious signal they are not aware of that tells them the man is strong, ie a good provider, will protect the children (remember we are just sophisticated animals) attracting them more. Sound stupid but it's pretty much scientific fact. Google it and google eye contact with women and see the tons of articles it comes up with. Now on the character judge part, just remember how many "he wont commit", "been together x time and he won't propose" threads you have seen, because they go with instinct over logic. Not trying to bash women, there are many great ones out there.

Not really unless the guy is a manipulator or they are gullible or naive most women can realize that the guy is the wrong type or has some bad qualities.

 

Most just minimize/excuse it since they find him attractive and want to change him to have dating/marriage qualities. To them fixing up a guy you find attractive is better than being with a guy you're not attracted to who has the qualities you want. I guess to them it's change him vs force yourself to grow attraction.

 

As for those threads showing they go with instinct over logic. That's not a gender thing that's a people thing.

 

Plenty of similar threads made by men.

[antinko]

Self fulfilling prophecy comes to mind when I read the OP. You're never going to get anywhere with such a self defeatist attitude.