amyg091 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 My boyfriend broke up with me this past week. He said he isn't happy with his life, he's not working, and he's "gonna fix it damn it" It was a cordial break up, and while it's really hard and it hurts, I'm doing better than I have in past break ups. I havn't really accepted that it's completely over yet and I think that's why I haven't totally broke down. I know everyone says it when they break up but I just knwo we're right together and good for each other. He said "If he feels on top again and wants a girlfriend, I'm the first and only on the list." Then he texted me 2 days after we broke up to see how I was holding up. I texted back that I was manaaging and thanks for asking. THat's all. NC otherwise. So, questions is: does it ever happen? Might a guy come back once he gets on his feet? Am I just crazy for thinking he might? THey say if you love someone to let them go, if they come back they were always yours and if they don't they never word. I guess I don't know how to move on without totally giving up hope...any suggestions? Similar stories?
jfLip Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 How long were you guys dating? I sympathize for you because I'm in a similar situation (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t299071/). It's really tough and heartbreaking. I'm moving on with myself, building my strength, but I just can't accept it's completely over. I fully believe she's the one for me...
Author amyg091 Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 We were together 4 months, and everyone says its not that long just move on. Honestly though, I've never had a deeper connection with someone. I dated a guy for 2 years and didnt have the connection I had with this man. Since the moment I met him, it was just natural and it worked. We were so good for each other. I dunno. I'm sure after a break up everyone says I just dont think it's really over but...I don't. It's hard and I'm trying to focus on me right now, bnetter myself anyway I can. I think when he gets his life back in order he'll call me. But like they say you have to let them go if you love them. If they come back, it's meant to be. And a quote my friend told me "It all works out in the end. If it isn't worked out, it's not the end." And this isn't worked out yet. I wish you the best of luck in your situation. I hope it works out for the both of us. I guess you just gotta believe in love, even when it's hard
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