Marianis Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 so yesterday i went to a party with my friend i got to drunk and i started crying in a cap on my way home.. since i deleted all the things from him i had a paper with his phone number somewhere in my room .. i called him and he picked up! :'( we talked for like 30 min .. just saying things about our lives how it has been since we didnt talk and stuff.. it was nice and i really liked to know about him .. i told him i missed him and he told me he was wondering about me and that why whould i want to erase him from my life. i told him he moved on and that since he is happy now i was trying to do the same but that it was really hard.. im so sad.. because i still want to be with him .. im so sad because i really really like talking to him! i send him a text this morning .. telling him "i really enjoyed talking to you .. hope we can do it more ofter and have a great weekend" he answer saying "me to, hope you have a great weekend to" im trying not to sent him another text .. and im trying too too hard not to think this is something good.. not to make ideas in my mind about him .. and .. im trying really hard not to add him to my msn again! .. or all that!!! .. WHAT DO I DO .... HELPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
TheDovic Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 If you really want to take away the risk of texting then delete his number and burn the paper you've written it down on! Easier said than done though, I still have my ex's number too !!!
Lucio Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Deleting won't work. I rem the num, unless I have amnesia... I will say dun text him again not cos of NC rule, but cos u will get addicted n possibly set urself up for a disappointment. U can talk to us here.
Author Marianis Posted September 24, 2011 Author Posted September 24, 2011 (edited) i know! .. the thing is .. that i REALLY REALLY like to know about him ... ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he was really nice.. and its so easy to talk to him .. this is to hard.. i wanna take the first plane to canada and go see him hahahaha IS IT BETTER IF I WAiT FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME?! ... ash! .. would he ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Edited September 24, 2011 by Marianis
Author Marianis Posted September 24, 2011 Author Posted September 24, 2011 So, you had a great time talking to him. Is he seeing someone? What is the deal? If the conversation went well, I say TAKE IT EASY for a few days. Wait a week, then decide if you want to call him. Evaluate what you want out of this, and evaluate if it's possible he has the same goals as you do. he is dating somebody .. the girl he always wanted to date when he was in highschool .. .. .. thats why i told him i was happy he was happy .. and that i was trying to do the same but that i miss him a lot.... but .. he said .. happy?! .. like maybe he is not that happy hahaha.. my ideas! .. mmm i guess ya its better to wait .. at least he knows that he can contact me to.. no!?
Lucio Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Dun read too much into his tone/words I guess. It'd kill u in the process n u will never know the right answer. Bad bargain. As for texting.. Now is not really ideal.. Especially when u just texted him cos u were drunk.. See how u feel tmr. N u can consider again.
TheDovic Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Do you wait for him to text you??? Absolutely, and then give very little away about yourself (don't answer the majority of their questions) and lightly make fun of him. That's what I was doing right up until I had enough of the games and went nc. It worked though cos she kept texting 3/4 days every week when I behaved like this
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