I don't feel like I'm in a LDR

[wolfess]

I haven't seen my guy in, well, almost a month, maybe 3 weeks, but it doesn't feel like this is long distance. I just feel like I'm away camping or something for a little while. We talk on the phone everyday, video chat frequently, but there's still no touching. It's weird. Even though I know we're apart it doesn't feel like we are, I don't know how to explain it, am I in denial?

[HeavenOrHell]

I feel very close to my partner while we're apart, we've been meeting about every 6-8 weeks. I miss him but it's bearable because we have plenty of contact and remain close and bonded.

It's great you feel like that

 

How long are you apart for? If it's while, you may have ups and downs where you miss him much more than other times.

 

 

I haven't seen my guy in, well, almost a month, maybe 3 weeks, but it doesn't feel like this is long distance. I just feel like I'm away camping or something for a little while. We talk on the phone everyday, video chat frequently, but there's still no touching. It's weird. Even though I know we're apart it doesn't feel like we are, I don't know how to explain it, am I in denial?

[wolfess]

1-2 years depending, but we might have the summer together. I do have ups and downs, I feel bad that I missed our anniversary and his birthday this year, I can't let that happen next year

[HeavenOrHell]

You might not actually see him for all that time?

 

 

 

1-2 years depending, but we might have the summer together. I do have ups and downs, I feel bad that I missed our anniversary and his birthday this year, I can't let that happen next year

[wolfess]

No, I shouldn't say that he'll be here sometime next month and I'll be visiting around the holidays as well.

[FitChick]

It sounds like a healthy way of coping instead of moping. I used to pretend I was on long business trips.