Charu Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Hi All, This is my first post on this forum and am looking to share my unbelievable experience. I have been dating this guy from 4 months and he never committed or told me anything personal not about his ex-girl friends or his parents. But he roams with me like all the time 24/7. He doesnt like to be alone and he is new to the city (6 months or so) and he dosent have many friends who he can rely on. When I asked him couple of months ago the question "Where is this relation going?" He said " I really didnt have time to think about you , I had other priorities(work, No idea what else). I was mindblocked for few mins and relaized I need to dump him right away. I relied saying "You had time to sleep with me but not think about me?"But he is so charming or I am so stupid, that he convinced me that he needs more time like 6 months to commit anything. 1 day ago, I was going out for haircut and he teased me asking if I am going on a date and I said yes (as a joke). His response was " Oh Man I havent gone out or dated a girl in like 4 months and I think I miss that". I came out and said "**** you bastard, what have you been doing with me then" Since then he is trying to say sorry. But I dont want to talk to a person like that. My feelings right now "I atleast wished i was dumped by him, but then he never even recognized me" I am shocked at this response from him!! I want to shoot him and scold him badly. What should I say?
january2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Tell him that you needed to see more committment by now and therefore you don't see this relationship going anywhere because you're both not in agreement about the pace.
silly_panda Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Clearly this guy does not appreciate you and is not willing to commit... The question is why are you still with this guy..? You know that you won't be able to get what you wan... You are better off without him... Talk to him about how you feel and what you really wan out of this... If he can't provide that to you... Walk away...
Author Charu Posted September 24, 2011 Author Posted September 24, 2011 yes you are right. I dont even want to talk to him any more or share my thoughts of what I think. I think I have wasted 4 months of my precious time/thoughts/feelings taking care of a womanizer. I just cant believe people can use you like that! I just want to shut him out like he never existed but also I feel like I need to express strong response to what he has done to me.
Recommended Posts