mridul_chajilee Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Hi friends, Do you know that how is your Ex (she/he) today?Do they realy happy after leaving you or They are unhappy? I don't know anything for 2years after my break up,Is she happy or not i know nothing. How about you?
january2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Nope, we pretty much talk about business and keep it professional. I hope he is happy though but that's because of how much shared history we have between us and I feel that it would be wrong to hold onto what happened at the end, given that it's very much water under the bridge and I'm very happy right now.
Desensitized Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Hi friends, Do you know that how is your Ex (she/he) today?Do they realy happy after leaving you or They are unhappy? I don't know anything for 2years after my break up,Is she happy or not i know nothing. How about you? I don't know if she's happy or not. Did I make her happy at one point? Sure. Is she happy that things are over between us now that everything is ruined? Probably. Does she still miss me? Perhaps. Looking back only brings back memories, look toward the future.
Buttercup84 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 I think my ex must be happier . Pretty sure he is happy with someone else .
Misar7 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Well, it has been 2 months since he left, and he has been with another woman for 2 months and she is 8 weeks pregnant, accident that happened in first week they met, and getting a place for them. We have not talked or seen each other in 2 months, but my brother is married to his sister. They all tell me he is doing really well, and is very happy, happier than they have seen in him a long time (ouch). Now my brother is his friend, and my brother says he is not that happy and is moody a lot. IDK who is telling the truth.
yzyzyz325 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 I have no idea. My ex left me basically because she needed to focus on study, and I guess she lost attraction due to being too stressed and busy. She said she wanted to be alone. She actually had no clear idea why she wanted to break up. As a quite moody and emotional person, I think she just followed her mood without thinking through. I haven't checked her FB for 1 month, I don't know if she is happy of leaving me. But one thing for sure, she is too busy to think of it. She also disappears from our gang of mutual friends, so they have no idea neither. My ex ex, almost 2 yrs ago, I heard she got married. She was my first. I was quite angry at her when she broke up with me, bcoz i thought i contributed a lot to our relationship and i didn't deserve the result . However, after two yrs of constantly inspecting the relationship, i realised that i was never a good bf because i had no idea how to be a bf and i was too shy, too reserved, and more importantly, too careless. I know it doesn't make sense, how could I be careless when I tried so hard to be a good bf. Well, it's bcoz I was too young and had no experience before, I didn't know how to put myself into her shoes. Ironically, my current gf did the same thing to me bcoz of the same reason, being too young and too immature (I am her first). Anyway, I dont really miss my ex ex, because she was not a good gf neither, and i really didn't like her personality. She had tough time after breaking up with me. Oh, I forgot to say, she broke up with me basically because she felt there would not be a future between us (family issue). So, I hope she is happy now because i know i was not a good bf and i feel sorry that i couldnt give what she wanted for being immature. Oh, i tried to add her as my friend 2.5 yrs after breakup, but she never accepted... BTW, why do u want to know how ur ex is doing after 2 yrs?
SillyS Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 It's actually my birthday today, so I'm trying to enjoy my afternoon/night! I can't change missing him and I can't really change loving him, only time can handle that. I'm trying to focus on the things I can change, and that is the achievements of my days and how I conduct myself today/tomorrow and every day after. This is my new motto. So while I hope he is happy and content with his life, it's not my focus of my life anymore. I am now.
mike588 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Two weeks after dumping me she told me she was happy. That was 2 months ago so I guess she still is. Time will tell if she "stays happy" with him.
TheDovic Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 My mum's ex said my ex is distraught at the moment and never comes out of her room. Also my ex told me she is really sad and misses me. She hasn't been on FB in weeks either so she might be sad like this. I'm devastated today and really want her back but I know I can't . I hope you're doing well
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 24, 2011 Author Posted September 24, 2011 Thanks for your comments and different views. But you know we are just mechine and nothing.Does we realy driffted 4m our ex?Here,we are just discussing here to cool down our mind and nothing.But we realy miss our exes.lol
2sunny Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 he'll never be happy - he doesn't know how to be happy. yep - he moved on and married right away... taking his very unhealthy, unhappy self to the next gal... i told him years ago that i feel sad and sorry for her... which i do. he thinks and tries to find happiness outside of himself... he loves to do things backwards!
fuzzbella Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 He looks happy, i hope he is, even after everything he's done to me, he still deserves to be happy, everyone does.
Mack05 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 I dont give a ****...It's a reason why I have healed the way I have.....When you come to terms with it all..forgive, let it go and move on...Focus on the future not the past. After 2 years if and u still wondering!!!??Time for Therapy..After 2 years, u shouldnt give a monkeys nutsack what he or she is doing...
immitable Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 It's actually my birthday today, so I'm trying to enjoy my afternoon/night! I can't change missing him and I can't really change loving him, only time can handle that. I'm trying to focus on the things I can change, and that is the achievements of my days and how I conduct myself today/tomorrow and every day after. This is my new motto. So while I hope he is happy and content with his life, it's not my focus of my life anymore. I am now. Hey happy Birthday )
Arikel Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Most of the time I'm indifferent now. However I still wonder why he did the things he did, and if he really did love me, and if the person I loved was real or not. I realize that he's probably moved on to a new victim, but a part of me also thinks he may at least have taken a look at himself and may regret losing me (too bad!). I pity him. I think thats the long and short of it. Kinda sad huh
Bruised Not Broken Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Well, it has been 2 months since he left, and he has been with another woman for 2 months and she is 8 weeks pregnant, accident that happened in first week they met, and getting a place for them. We have not talked or seen each other in 2 months, but my brother is married to his sister. They all tell me he is doing really well, and is very happy, happier than they have seen in him a long time (ouch). Now my brother is his friend, and my brother says he is not that happy and is moody a lot. IDK who is telling the truth. No guy is happy he got some girl pregnant the first week he meets her. And the chances of that playing out well for either of them down the road is slim to none.
jackjoynr Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Most of the time I'm indifferent now. However I still wonder why he did the things he did, and if he really did love me, and if the person I loved was real or not. I realize that he's probably moved on to a new victim, but a part of me also thinks he may at least have taken a look at himself and may regret losing me (too bad!). I pity him. I think thats the long and short of it. Kinda sad huh Ditto! I wonder the same exact things and pity him (my ex) as well.
EgoJoe Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I don't care. I only miss what we had not her specifically.
Silvermane Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 She's great I bet. **** her. I love her, but **** her.
jeff2321 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I am not sure how my ex is doing and I really don't care. The day she moved her **** out and left is the day it was over between us and it will stay that way. Jeff2321 Hi friends, Do you know that how is your Ex (she/he) today?Do they realy happy after leaving you or They are unhappy? I don't know anything for 2years after my break up,Is she happy or not i know nothing. How about you?
Misar7 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 No guy is happy he got some girl pregnant the first week he meets her. And the chances of that playing out well for either of them down the road is slim to none. You may be right, but he did really want a kid, so maybe it was not even an accident, and she is so young she don't know any better. Him and I had gotten pregnant in the past, it was planned, but I lost the pregnancies. A week before he got with her he was trying to convince me to get pregnant, but I said I wanted commitment first. Then a week later he hooks up with her, and boom got her pregnant right away, claims the condom broke! 8 yrs with that man ugh..well on Facebook they are all gushing over how happy they are! Well she is I should say..it's only just been 2 months I am still really hurt by this.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 After my break up,one day i asked my ex whether she would marry with other man or would live alone.Then she told dat if she realy loved me then she would't but if she did not love me then she would.So she just gave me a hope to the whole.
SillyS Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 I think its okay to randomly wonder that after 2 years, but for anyone that has recently gone through a break up these type of thoughts are rather destructive. Hey happy Birthday ) Danke!
melenkurion Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 I haven't a clue if he is happy or not. That's quite liberating, to be honest. If he was miserable when we together, I certainly knew all about it.
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