cdm369 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 All together or his and her bills? Always thought it better to combine but is it really? never tried it seperate.
FitChick Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 If you are not legally married, keep everything separate. If married, combine everything because in marriage you are "one."
carhill Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 My exW wanted everything separate when we got married and then, when divorce was inevitable, chastised me for not pushing for us to combine our finances. I understand now that this is normal
FitChick Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 My exW wanted everything separate when we got married That was a red flag right there that she wasn't interested in being a "team player." If you don't want to share and are totally self-centered, don't get married.
Keke1 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 (edited) That was a red flag right there that she wasn't interested in being a "team player." If you don't want to share and are totally self-centered, don't get married. Yes selfishness is a red flag. I stayed with my girl thinking that she would see that I wasn't selfish towards her or anyone but nothing changed. The funny thing is most of them don't know they are selfish. Edited September 24, 2011 by Keke1
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