DazyDaisy Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 I initiated the breakup, but he agreed. He didn't argue it or anything so it was more mutual than anything, but still says he wants to be friends. Do you think he's doing it for the wrong reasons (like he thinks we are gonna get back together)?
allite Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 maybe sex? idk just making a suggestion like he wants friends with benefits. I dontknow your entire story so i cant help much
Unrequitedlove Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 What are the wrong reasons? Do you want him back or not? If you don't, express your concern for his feelings and ask him if he can take being your friend- and just your friend.
carhill Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 Potentials: Keep the door open. A knee-jerk reaction from his emotional attachment. Insecurity. He could sincerely wish to remain platonic friends. What's his relationship history?
Author DazyDaisy Posted September 24, 2011 Author Posted September 24, 2011 No, I don't want him back. I broke up with him, but he agreed so it was mutual but obviously none of us wanted the relationship so it's kind of weird that he wants to be friends. I thought that maybe he just agreed but in reality wanted to be together so he did the friend thing in an attempt to make me want to get back together with him? It's his first relationship.
carhill Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 If his first relationship, I'll go with #2 and #3 of my bullet potentials. This presumes the relationship was sexual and lasted a year or more. Another variable is his age. Younger equals more likely to be attached or insecure, though that isn't definitive. How long were you together? How long have you been split up? Either of you dating anyone right now?
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