domesticated male Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 (edited) she wanted her stuff i thought i was doing ok, how wrong i was. back to begging, angry, begging, crazy, begging than just lost it now im here again doh. wtf would she just throw all this away, ive been here the whole time shes been studying to be a high school teacher she has like 10 weeks left of 4 years of hell, but we were doing this for our future it been driving both of us nuts being in such a small apartment complex with no sun. we going to get a house, babies, married truckload of animals our life was planned she ****ing planned it. I didnt have a back up plan, i didnt know this was an option. what am i spose to do now, start again eight years gone:lmao: im 33 shes 30 she says shes changed, what on earth does that mean. do people change or just the influences/environment around them create that feeling. If we did move have a child get a nice house, live another 60 years if we are lucky make this 4 years worth it. we were like the best of friends besides lovers always their for each other. i have a great income and paid for everything, more than what she was going to earn after she finished, i paid the bills i own everything all she taking is her stinking old bed clothes and ows me money for the car i bought her. I did the house keeping as well. when im talking to the boys they tell me about their day i get to say i scrub the toilet and spent 4 hours cleaning up than shopping and cooking. grrrrr Edited September 23, 2011 by domesticated male spellcheck
TheDovic Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 Hey dude, I replied to one of your posts before and wrote the following ("Here's the way it is dude. Women break up with us usually because they have lost attraction for us... No matter what way you look at it this statement is right! Now, the only way to ever get them back is to make them feel attraction again!!! Now the opposite of attraction is neediness and desperation, so if you ever want her back you've got to STOP sending messages like this! You have also tried to use fear and guilt throughout this message but once again all this will do is push her away further - I promise you that! You need to trawl the internet and read some books if you want to have any chance of getting her back because what you're doing right now will PUSH HER AWAY and ultimately FAIL. In saying that I know how hard it is to keep your emotions in check after a break up, but if you want her back you have to try. Books to try: Anything by John Alexander or David DeAngelo. Websites: [COLOR=#990000]http://www.getherback.com/[/COLOR] (Lots of great advice on there) [COLOR=#990000]http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor...etting_ex_back[/COLOR] (Not bad either) Good luck buddy, but read these things before contacting her again") Listen, I know it's not easy to hide our feelings BUT if you want her back you're going to have to do this FOR NOW!!! Try and use the above advice (get David DeAngelo's "Attraction isn't a choice." It'll tell you how to be attractive to women just by the way you interact with them (without stupid tricks). I know you're really hurting dude but if you want a chance with this girl again you HAVE TO STOP the begging. If this means not seeing her for a few weeks then you have to make that sacrifice!
DazyDaisy Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 You became her pet. Girls don't want pets. They want someone that'll be dominant. And you weren't. You were "domesticated"... She lost attraction for you. Sorry to be harsh but seriously, you're still acting like her pet by begging. You bought the car? Tell her to pay you. Her transportation is no longer your business. Damn, man.
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