salad Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 i have been with a boy who is one year older than me, and graduated this past june, for over one year. his love style: shy at first, then gets obsessed pretty much my love style: i lose interest quickly, love the chase, obsessed at the start then fizzles out i feel like my love for him is fizzling out. the only thing i really love anymore is the sex, and i know that sounds terrible, but i feel close to him, and i feel special at that point. he has anger and abandonment issues, so i feel somewhat obligated to stay. both of his parents are not present in a way, more so his father, and as a result, he wants to hold onto what he can get. i love the good times, but i get more and more irritated with him. he isn't going to university this year, but is trying to get a job, but only when i prod him to. it bothers me a lot. i have had a job for three years, and i just can't stand that he hates trying to get one... i don't know what to do. i feel like i've given him one too many chances (i give him chances when he swears at me and he has hit me once, in public) and i don't want to hurt him, but i don't want to stay with him either. his mannerisms just bother me now. i just like cuddling, and kissing, honestly... help!!!
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