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I have been going out with this guy for like two months now. Does this seem like it has been going well...

 

We go out once, twice a week. He buys me Dinner and I choose what we eat.

 

Have hung out with he's friends a few times.

 

Have spent a weekend away with him as well where he paid for everything. Except the flight. I did not expect for him to pay for that.

 

He does call me he's girlfriend. Around he's friends and mine. Also in general conversation as well.

 

The only things are. He does not call or text much. Only when necessary. But always keeps dates and buys us both treats when he comes over.

 

Also he has been very busy lately and has had to cancel our weekly date night twice. One. Due to a family reason, Grandma sick in Hospital. He reschedules a date with me for the next day but I say no because I am busy.

 

We end up hanging out 9:30pm on a Sunday in the end.

 

Secondly he cancels due to a work mate ending up in Hospital and having to get stitches. Apparently he had to take him there. He got fixed up and everything was fine.

 

I had a go at him the second time cause I thought he was bull****ting me. Getting out of dates two weeks that just so happen to fall on date night cause of two medical reasons? Told him not to pull this bull**** on me if he was not interested in me. He should just say he is not.

 

He told me if he was not interested he would not have organised this and asked me out. That he was deadly serious about what was going on and apologized, I apologized as well. Just said I was disappointed just wanted to see and catch up with him.

 

He gave me text updates during the night, then mentioned when he got home. Gave me a good night, xx's then went to bed. When he got home said he would call me the next day but he never did.

 

Now nothing. Should I just leave him you reckon? Really like this guy and did not mean to have a go at him the way I did. Just was disappointed we never got to hang out. :confused:.

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