austin326 Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 well ill start of telling you all my position, i was dating this girl for 2 and a half years. on and off, shes two years younger then me im 19 shes 17, well 6 months ago we broke up for good. She was on probation and wasnt allowed to talk to me or anyone over the age of 18 we still dated for about 3 months altho we couldnt see eachother we still talked on the phone alot and did our best. well one night we got into a arguement she said screw it and went off and ****ed another guy and now shes dating him and has been for 6months i still talk to her everyday and were "friends" well for the first 3 months of dating this new guy she would cheat on him with me. Now she no longer has sex with me. ill get to the point should i let go or keep fighting for her? i tell her how in love i am everyday and how id do absoultly ANYTHING to have her back. She said shes in love with her new boyfriend and whatever but i have faith when shes off probation i might get another chance. should i just let go and stop talking to her or take the chance of getting really hurt and having all this back fire on me again?
othersideofthepillow Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 well ill start of telling you all my position, i was dating this girl for 2 and a half years. on and off, shes two years younger then me im 19 shes 17, well 6 months ago we broke up for good. She was on probation and wasnt allowed to talk to me or anyone over the age of 18 we still dated for about 3 months altho we couldnt see eachother we still talked on the phone alot and did our best. well one night we got into a arguement she said screw it and went off and ****ed another guy and now shes dating him and has been for 6months i still talk to her everyday and were "friends" well for the first 3 months of dating this new guy she would cheat on him with me. Now she no longer has sex with me. ill get to the point should i let go or keep fighting for her? i tell her how in love i am everyday and how id do absoultly ANYTHING to have her back. She said shes in love with her new boyfriend and whatever but i have faith when shes off probation i might get another chance. should i just let go and stop talking to her or take the chance of getting really hurt and having all this back fire on me again? not to be rude or mean but look at the bold parts of your post.....now do me a favor...do they look AT ALL LIKE SOMETHING THAT LOOKS NORMAL OR HEALTHY???? 1. She can't behave which is why she is on probation 2. She is a CHEATER (not "technically" on you but def with her "current" bf) 3. She doesn't want you as anything more than a "f@#$ buddy" 4. She says she "loves" (she has no idea what LOVE is) her new bf (even though she's probably cheating on him with someone else even you dont know about) Your young man. take it for what its worth & MOVE ON....SHE ALREADY HAS & SHE IS NOT WORTH ANYONES TIME RIGHT NOW LET ALONE YOURS!!! i dont mean to be harsh or rude but trust me your not fighting for anything cause shes already gone so go out and meet a new woman
name goeshere Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 Move on and if she changes in the future and comes back ok, if not you were probably better off without her anyways.
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