amyg091 Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 so my boyfriend of 4 months started withdrawing into his little cave becasue he doesn't have a job, isn't happy with his situation and other stresses. mkay. i get that. he finally talked to me and said the relationship doesn't feel right anymore, I fought for it, he said i don't think i like how persistent you're being. so I said i'd back off. he said that's best for now. we had a cordial break up and I thought that was it. he said "if i feel on top again and want a girlfriend you're the first and only on the list." false hope or legitimate caring, i dunno. now it's 2 days later. he texted me this morning saying "lemme know how you're holding up. I've been worrying a bit." so i gave him the honest answer, its hard but i'm managing. thanks for asking. GUYS - why would he text me this? I dont really get it. he wanted space. i backed off. then he texts me? is he just trying to keep tabs on me? if he tries to talk to me again what should I do?
madjac74 Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Well you said his confidence is low so maybe he was hoping you would try hard and beg to get him back and that would likely boost his ego. But you havent so he sends the text "Let me know how you are holding up. Ive been worried". That almost presumes that you are taking the breakup so hard that you did something to your self and thats the reason you hadnt contacted him. Instead of the true fact that you are just complying with his wish and going about your life. Just the first thought that popped into my mind when I read your situation.
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