Cowboy1015 Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 So she broke up with me last week. When she broke up with me, it was just a quick talk, like 10 mins. I know she spent days thinking if she's really gonna break up with me. And I think the main reason why she decided to break up is when I panicked. That made her think that I'm not sincere to what I've said when I panicked and that all I care about is myself... which is my fear of losing her. So, me expecting the break up last week, I just basically agreed to her decision and we parted ways. And then I stayed limited contact since last week. I'm about to see her tonight. I really want her back, but I don't want to push her further away. So i'm wondering If I should try to reconcile with her, say sorry. Or maybe just be casual and accept the fact that we're done and hope to get another chance someday.
aerogurl87 Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 So how did it go last night? I wish I would've replied to this yesterday cause I was gonna say I'd say I was sorry and leave it at that. No groveling, no begging, just be casual and see where things go while you try to move on with your life.
Author Cowboy1015 Posted September 23, 2011 Author Posted September 23, 2011 Well, she came to my place. I just apologized. I told her I understand why she's not happy. I did ask her if she want's us just to step back. And she said, "let's just be friends, I know you will be a good friend... and let's see what happens from there." I think she still cares but just confused. She said she felt uncomfortable. She said I don't believe her when she say she loves me and that I only compliment her after other people did. Maybe we're just incompatible. So it will just be up to her and i'll move on. But I guess I will just do limited contact.
TheDovic Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 Nightmare Cowboy, don't let yourself be "friendzoned" though. You'll NEVER get her back this way and you'll have to go through the hurt of watching her moving on
Author Cowboy1015 Posted September 23, 2011 Author Posted September 23, 2011 Nightmare Cowboy, don't let yourself be "friendzoned" though. You'll NEVER get her back this way and you'll have to go through the hurt of watching her moving on Yeah it's a nightmare. But, I think what she wants is to cool off. Why does she have to say "let's see what happens from there"? She could have just said let's just be friends and that's it. Anyhow, I'm not keeping my hopes high. I'll move on. If she comes back, and I'm still available... then good.
january2011 Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 Why does she have to say "let's see what happens from there"? She could have just said let's just be friends and that's it. There's a small chance that she's being sincere about there being a potential reconciliation but most likely she wants to keep her options open and keep you as a backup and/or she wants to 'soften' the blow because she doesn't want to be the bad guy. Anyhow, I'm not keeping my hopes high. I'll move on. If she comes back, and I'm still available... then good. Best course of action, in my opinion.
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