tb24 Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I went on a date last night to see a band with a girl from okcupid. She was nice enough but I couldn't read her AT ALL. She was very quiet/shy, didn't look me in the eyes much, I think she was very nervous. I'm not the best conversationalist but I did 80% of the talking. She seemed nice enough and I'd put it down to shyness, she was very indecisive about pretty much everything. I'd see her again because she seems like a genuinely nice person if I could get her to open up a bit. But I don't know how to tell if she was interested at all. I hugged her at the end of the night, I get the impression she wouldn't have been assertive enough to make any kind of move herself. The problem is, I have no idea if she was interested at all. She didn't seem to show any emotion-- positive or negative. At the end of the night she seemed to relax a little bit more but I still couldn't get a feel for how much (if at all) she was interested. I don't wanna discount her completely if she's up for a second date, she may have really liked me which made her so shy. Alternatively she might have been really bored... I genuinely could not tell.. haha. I guess I should just invite her out again and see what happens? I'm also fairly she'd wait for me to make the next move if she does like me. On the flip-side, I probably didn't seem very interested either because I couldn't tell anything about her :-\
Imageiko Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I don't wanna discount her completely if she's up for a second date, she may have really liked me which made her so shy. Alternatively she might have been really bored... I genuinely could not tell.. haha. Some people just take a little time to open up and once they get to know you better they become much more outgoing. Especially since you met her online I'd give her 2-3 dates assuming she's still interested and see if she becomes more outgoing. When you're talking try mixing in a question that can't be answered by a short answer.
Author tb24 Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 Yeah I think you're right. I asked her out again and she said yes We're going to see another band in a couple of weeks but she's always slow (like a few days) to respond to messages. I don't know how to take that, heh. I still have no idea about her level of interest.
scwing Posted September 26, 2011 Posted September 26, 2011 I'm in pretty much the same situation as you, OP. Could you please post an update after your date i.e - did she come out of her shell (that sounds kind of sexual!).
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