brttnygrdn Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I am a 20 year old lesbian female and I have been talking to this girl who is 19 (who was previously straight before me) for 2.5 months. She has liked me for 2 years but I was dating someone when I first met her. We started talking recently and things moved fast. We have told each other we love each other for about 2 weeks now. 2 days ago she told me that she had kissed a male. We agreed in our relationship that drunken kisses were just kisses. But then she told me she actually had feelings for him because she thought he was attractive and that he is a boy and her mother would approve. (her mom doesnt know about me) Her mom is really hard on her as it is and would freak out if she knew and I completely understand. She is 2 hours away from me at college but I visit at least once a week, sometimes twice. The boy she kissed lives across the street from her apartment at school and hangs out with her male roommates. I told her that I think we should take a 2 week break so that she could figure out what she wants and talk to the boy to figure out who she wants to be with. She has been really upset since the whole thing happened. She said she doesnt want a relationship with anyone but doesnt want to lose me. What does that mean? I am so confused on what to do. She said that she wants me but also her freedom because she is young and unsure of what she wants. I love her so yes I am very iffy on what to do and do not want to say the wrong thing to push her away. Also, she said the reason she feels the way she does at the moment is because we talk about the future and I told her I wouldnt bring up the future again. What should I do? *Please no criticism on being gay, if you are not going to give advice please do not post at all
Recommended Posts