name goeshere Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I was just in an accident this morning. Is it a valid reason for breaking NC? I was trying to follow the advice of NC not to move on but to give time to reconsider worth repursuing the relationship. It has been just over a week of NC.
othersideofthepillow Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 who broke up with who? who went no NC? i am the dumpee and actually my ex was in a fender bender and text me that she was (didnt really clarify that it was a car accident) but i didnt respond to it....still kept going NC for a few days until she showed up at my apt asking why i was ignoring her and whatnot....long story short i was getting strung along (dont know why she needed to text me parts of her life since she dumped me and was "OVER ME") but like i said this depends on who dumped who, the level of the accident, and what intentions you have behing informing your ex of your accident
Author name goeshere Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 I was the dumpee and I initiated NC. I took a picture of my really bad swollen upper lip and sent it to most of my contact list. Part of it was wanting to tell her and I just didn't remove her from the list of recipients.
A7X Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I can't think of a good reason... I mean if something happened to me I would contact friends or family, they're always there for me, not a ex, they are out of your life for a reason, you know. The only thing I can think of is finding out that a member of the family that you knew is sick or ... then maybe a msg saying your sorry about ... but nothing more I would say and even at that...
othersideofthepillow Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I can't think of a good reason... I mean if something happened to me I would contact friends or family, they're always there for me, not a ex, they are out of your life for a reason, you know. The only thing I can think of is finding out that a member of the family that you knew is sick or ... then maybe a msg saying your sorry about ... but nothing more I would say and even at that... I totally agree with you!!! take your ex out of your contacts as well to avoid anything else like that happening again (chances are you already know their number by heart anyways) your ex probably wouldnt give to a damn about your accident to be honest, and even if they did it would probably be a short, uncaring, unloving response just a distant acquaintance would respond to it
Author name goeshere Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 The good part is people I have not talked to for months are texting me so it makes for a very good distraction. lol
A7X Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 It's not easy going NC but it does get easier... I broke it after 5 days texting her; I really hate the way you ended things between us. I regretted it but at the same time I wanted her to know that I didn't appreciate the way she treated me. So I've been doing great until well last night when I found out she unblocked me on FB, now I'm like; Why are you playing these games, grow up!!
Author name goeshere Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 I have blocked people myself to prevent myself from contacting them. She may have needed to NC for herself just as much as you did.
A7X Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Knowing her she's looking for a reaction from me, that well, she won't get!
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