thedales Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Hi there, this is my 1st post so please bear with me My wife and I have been together for 11 years and married for 2, mostly happily. We have 2 children aged 4 and 9 who are my absolute world and I spend as much time with them as I can. Anyway my wife had an emotional affair with a guy at work called Kevin and eventually after some digging I found out all about it, found out where he lived and something which I'm not proud of, gave him a good kicking and told his wife (they were expecting a child at the time). After a short break we got back together and had a wonferful baby boy and got married. All this was on the condition she left work, which she did. All was well but I found a message on her phone the other week on a sunday saying "hi, really bored, what are you up to) from one of the sales guys at work called?? You guessed it Kevin!! I approached her about this and she said they are just colleauges etc. Was I being too paranoid? Last time I trusted my gut and this time my gut is telling me that something is going on. I am currently staying with my sister as I can't bear the sight of her at the moment, and have told my babies that I am working away at the moment. I feel sick all the time and am trying to hold myself together but it is so so hard. Any advice would be much appreciated, even though I see my babies every other day more or less, it is tearing me apart. Cheers for reading. K.
ThreeLegDog Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I am by no means an expert here, but I think it would be a good idea to get back into the house.
Author thedales Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 Thanks for your kind words, just feel like a spare part at the moment.
Author thedales Posted September 23, 2011 Author Posted September 23, 2011 Gonna do that tonight, as picking the kids up from school.
mark982 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 also since you know who om is, talk to his wife (again), and blow this outta the water.
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