Enasha Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Our relationship is more than 1year now. but now I feel that my guy is very busy and I'm the last on his list. When he calls also he talks about he's work now, but those days he used to pet me so much. I think he has forgotten all those things now. When I say that he doesn't have time for me he says he is working so heard for our own good and to give me a wonderful life in the coming future.I really don't want to give up on our relationship because I love him so much and he too loves me so much.. Because of his work i miss him so much, and when i tell him so he never tells it back to me.. I feel very lonely at times ,and i can't worry my guy all the time too... i miss him so much.so what should i do? please advise. Thank you very much for reading.
alekmagnolia Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Our relationship is more than 1year now. but now I feel that my guy is very busy and I'm the last on his list. When he calls also he talks about he's work now, but those days he used to pet me so much. I think he has forgotten all those things now. When I say that he doesn't have time for me he says he is working so heard for our own good and to give me a wonderful life in the coming future.I really don't want to give up on our relationship because I love him so much and he too loves me so much.. Because of his work i miss him so much, and when i tell him so he never tells it back to me.. I feel very lonely at times ,and i can't worry my guy all the time too... i miss him so much.so what should i do? please advise. Thank you very much for reading. I think you should do him a massage of the back, then he will want to see you more often.
vsmini Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I'm not saying he doesn't love you or he doesn't care about you - everyone has different priorities and his may very well be with good intentions to provide for you for a future but living for tomorrow is not fun. The relationship should be getting its strong foundation now - with quality time and really getting to know each other. When are you going to spend that quality time together? Later? When he's saved up all his money? It will most likely always be like this - because most people can never feel too financially secure. The fact that you feel lonely is a big red flag - you need to talk to him about it more. In my relationships if we aren't a #1 priority to each other and place the relationship above all - it at least is in the top 3! Nobody is that busy that they can't tell their girlfriend that they also miss them. Either talk to him or find someone that will make you and the relationship a priority. Don't sit around pouting and waiting for him to change.
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