Osiris1234 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Guys have done with this with my (ex)girlfriend. Trying to take her away. The funny thing is that they are so ****ing blind to figure out she was milking these guys for everything they had. These are the guys that go after girls who are taken. It was fun because she got money,gifts,cash,etc. Actually while we were at a bar she was flirting yup a guy and he bought her a drink. She asked him if she could have 1 more. He did so. She took both drinks and talked over to me and we enjoyed them at this guys expense. Its great what you can get from these guys.
Jynxx Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 So you're saying you're willing to destroy someone else's relationship, create hurt in the process...because it makes life less boring? Yes, that's exactly what I wrote: you should go out of your way to destroy peoples lives as much as you can in order to not get bored Did you even read my post or did you skim through it, read the word boring and decided to strawman it? (fyi http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man) And to think some people tell you there's no debating with you, go figure...
FrustratedStandards Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 You guys should seriously ask yourselves what it is in you that makes you feel the need to do that, especially when the norm is to hit on single women. I wouldn't want a man who cares so much about "norms" anyway. So that works out. she's enjoying the extra attention on the side. if she really wanted to be with you she would be, and would've ended her current relationship. Exactly! I agree. So you're saying you're willing to destroy someone else's relationship, create hurt in the process...because it makes life less boring? That brings me back to my original argument, i.e.: It's unethical. No. The guy wouldn't ruin the relationship. The girl would. If the guy deliberately sabotaged their dates etc then yes of course, thats a psycho. But if he simply gave her compliments and flirted with her, then how is it HIS fault if she appreciates him more and likes him more? And if she was serious about this current guy, right away she would put the wall up. "Listen thats nice of you but I have a boyfriend" or "please don't talk to me like that". Easy as that. I've done it before.
Author mrgoodcat Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 (edited) Actually while we were at a bar she was flirting yup a guy and he bought her a drink. She asked him if she could have 1 more. He did so. She took both drinks and talked over to me and we enjoyed them at this guys expense. Its great what you can get from these guys. Please, be very careful with that. If some chick did that too me and I saw that, it would result in an unpleasant confrontation. Wow, I get serious adrenaline rush just thinking of that.... You run into someone with no flight reaction to confrontation and it is going to be a horrible night for everyone. Edited September 25, 2011 by mrgoodcat
Author mrgoodcat Posted September 25, 2011 Author Posted September 25, 2011 (edited) When girls pick guys, frequently the guy just happened to ask her out and she agreed for a lack of a better alternative. So he got there first, but he ain't the first choice. Just a desperate guy who asked many chicks and finally got a yes. Am I supposed to respect that? Pfff. Regardless, I tried instead of just giving up to see what comes from it. Felt that she is fading and properly assumed she is fine with her current BF. Now I have no reason to go after her. As a result, from this point my interest started to significantly diminish and I can focus on other women. I only come in when I'm invited with hospitality. Edited September 26, 2011 by mrgoodcat
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 UPDATE: She gave me her number. She wants to take it slow and we're talking a tentative date next week. That makes me want it even more. *takes a deep breath* Onyxsnowfall and NexusOne can really suck on their theories. Yeah, I still have it bad for her.
Mangomonkey Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I hope you two get together. So i can laugh when she cheats on you later on. As the saying goes
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 If she cheats on me, I will deserve it. And take it like a man!
Mangomonkey Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Im not even trying to be negative about it. Im dead serious. Ima laugh if you get your feelings hurt. If you shrug it off in the end then more power to you. This gave me a wonderful idea for a topic
Cracker Jack Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 That was unexpected. Good for you. Is she still with her boyfriend?
Jynxx Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Awesome job man, so happy for you. Just hope you're not really thinking about taking it slow. She chose you over someone she was probably having sex with, which means the iron is hot now. Agree to take it slow but only slow down when she explicitly says no. Im not even trying to be negative about it. Im dead serious. Ima laugh if you get your feelings hurt. I used to think this was a character flaw, but I felt the exact same way when Snooki was dumped and humiliated on Jersey shore. I enjoyed every second of it. Maybe it makes both of us bad people, maybe it doesn't.
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 @Jack Not sure, but I don't think so. I don't exactly think they've been going out too long. He may have asked her out, she agreed, and then they had a few dates. I really think that this is what it was and I subliminally knew that.
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 Awesome job man, so happy for you. Just hope you're not really thinking about taking it slow. She chose you over someone she was probably having sex with, which means the iron is hot now. Agree to take it slow but only slow down when she explicitly says no. Well, by taking it slow I mean like not going out THIS weekend. Next week, and she will be kissed at the end of that date. Maybe during. We'll see. I also forgot to mention that few days ago, I stopped by and talked to her after not seeing her for a few days, and we got to talking. She was touched me on the arm at first, gave me a warm hug, and then kissed me on the cheek when I was leaving. That really threw me off because I thought there was nothing there at that point. But there was.
Cracker Jack Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 @Jack Not sure, but I don't think so. I don't exactly think they've been going out too long. He may have asked her out, she agreed, and then they had a few dates. I really think that this is what it was and I subliminally knew that. That would be even better. Either way, good stuff. Have any idea where you're going to take her for your date?
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 Depending on the time of the week, maybe to lunch on a weekday. On a weekend, it will be to the movies+walk on the beach/pier. Any novel ideas are welcomed.
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 One more bump for OnyxSnowFalls and NexusOne. This is for NerdOne: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TeIj_1X9JFA
Nexus One Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 (edited) One more bump for OnyxSnowFalls and NexusOne. This is for NerdOne: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TeIj_1X9JFA I read it alright and I already heard the song in the music thread and already made the connection between that song and your thread, but I don't have anything to add. I've already said what my stance was about what you're doing. Edited October 5, 2011 by Nexus One
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I read it alright and I already heard the song in the music thread and already made the connection between that song and your thread, but I don't have anything to add. I've already said what my stance was about what you're doing. aww why did you feed him? look at how desperate he is to get our attention would have been hotter to ignore his obscene immaturity, but since he's been fed... *feeds mrgoodcat Weruva* I doubt it will end well. Good luck nonetheless.
Nexus One Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 aww why did you feed him? look at how desperate he is to get our attention would have been hotter to ignore his obscene immaturity, but since he's been fed... *feeds mrgoodcat Weruva* I doubt it will end well. Good luck nonetheless. I just thought I'd emphasize that him getting a phone number and advancing things further changes jack sh*t about my opinion of what he's doing. That being said. What do you mean by 'hotter', don't you mean 'better'?
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