HaveHope212 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]well me and my ex are now 20 and were tog for about 3 ½ years we met in high school and when we werein high school she was dating I guess her first “love” if you want to call it heis 23 now so he is older and was out of high school when we met well he cheatedon her like 5 times him and her dad about fought anyway you get the idea not agood guy.. i believe they were tog for about 2 years so after they broke up meand her got tog and had the times of our lives crazy in love but her would callher all the time pretty much stalkin her it got so bad me and him actually didfight and her parents got a restraining order against him well after it wasfinally settled he finally backed off and me her got really close and werecrazy about each other well when wegraduated high school we went to the beach and found out she was pregnant wellwe decided to keep the baby and we both planned to go off to college but gavethat up and went to community college and I also proposed to her when were onvacation..she moved in with me and my parents around Christmas time and our sonwas born in feb 2010 and we both loved it she was a perfect mom and I couldn’t askfor more so anyway were just having a good time bein parents and this past janwe got our own place after awhile I got stressed with bills and would go to myfriends house and drink and sometimes not come home till real late but me andher nvr talked about it I guess she jus bottled it up and let it go on wellabout 2 months ago we finally talked and she said that she couldn’t do thisanymore and she wanted to break up she has felt like this for awhile butfinally couldn’t keep it bottled up anymore I was actually feeling like we weredriftin away so I did agree a little bit with her but quickly realized that myfamily meant everything not drinkin and hangin with friends everyday and I didthe whole begging for a week later she came home and I cleaned the whole houseand cooked a nice dinner and had my parents watch our son so we could talk andwhat well we did talk and even had sex and I thought I had my family back buther brother is in a band and she was going with her parents to watch it and I hadto work so I didn’t go but when she got back from the trip she didn’t want tobe in the relationship anymore so that caught me way off guard because of thenight we had a few days back..she moved in with her parents about a week lateran I did the whole begging for the first month and wasn’t getting anywhere so Istopped and talked only about our son quick pick ups and quick drop off withour son and i came home one day and got on the computer and she left herfacebook up and im not the type of guy to check phones,facebook etc but againtbetter judgment I looked bc she had a new message and it was from her crazy assex!! He was tellin her sayin I miss you I love you im sorry yall broke up butive always cared about you etc..you know all that crap well I deleted it andthought nothing of it and a few weeks later comes to find he messaged her againand they went on a date and back together and between me tryin to talk to herand her parents talkin her she aint listening to anyone she is wrapped up byhim I mean this feels like a nightmarean I just want to wake up so I don’t understand what the heck to do she eventook our son around which really pissed me off oh yea her mom did some researchand found about 2 years ago he was convicted with a felony charge of messinaround with a minor but quickly had a “story” to tell her I mean she isbelieving everything he says over her family ill never understand I need advice!!I mean I still love her but my heart is so broken I don’t know if the piecescould ever come back together it just sux if she would have came to me soonerand not have a communication problem we would still be together but I know thisis long and I thank all for reading this and for the help!![/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT]
danny1972 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 dude re- paragraph your story it seems to hard to follow simplify things and stop telling a story ,break it down to the facts , and paragraph things ,keep it simple ,to many grammar mistakes for me to follow ,keep it simple then re- post
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