His4Always Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I am feeling better this afternoon. JP and I had a lovely lunch and afterwards we made love. I love to look into his beautiful eyes as we make love. He kissed me gently and held me in his strong arms afterwards. So safe. Having him in my life is such a wondrous thing. I feel much more positive now than I did this morning and I wanted to share my joy with you. I thought it would be nice to post some things we love about the special loves of our lives. Here are some things I love about JP (not his real initials but I won't refer to him as MM.) He loves me. He loves me despite all of my faults. He makes me feel beautiful. He is gorgeous. I could melt into his beautiful green eyes. We complete each other. He listens to me. He believes in me. Our lovemaking is the best I've ever experienced. The connection we have is unlike any other we've ever experienced. He encourages me. We grow closer each and everyday. I love him. I love him. I love him more and more everyday. All AP are encouraged to participate.
jwi71 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I am feeling better this afternoon. JP and I had a lovely lunch and afterwards we made love. I love to look into his beautiful eyes as we make love. He kissed me gently and held me in his strong arms afterwards. So safe. Having him in my life is such a wondrous thing. I feel much more positive now than I did this morning and I wanted to share my joy with you. I thought it would be nice to post some things we love about the special loves of our lives. Here are some things I love about JP (not his real initials but I won't refer to him as MM.) He loves me. He loves me despite all of my faults. He makes me feel beautiful. He is gorgeous. I could melt into his beautiful green eyes. We complete each other. He listens to me. He believes in me. Our lovemaking is the best I've ever experienced. The connection we have is unlike any other we've ever experienced. He encourages me. We grow closer each and everyday. I love him. I love him. I love him more and more everyday. All AP are encouraged to participate. You're welcome. I told you...spend more time together. See, that was easy. And you can crochet now that he has left to go home to his W and kids
Author His4Always Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 You're welcome. I told you...spend more time together. See, that was easy. And you can crochet now that he has left to go home to his W and kids Hi jwi. Was the crochet comment really necessary?
Author His4Always Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 JWI, Is there something you love about the special person in your life? Please share.
jwi71 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Hi jwi. Was the crochet comment really necessary? You're right. That was mean. I could have said so many other more helpful things - or even nothing would have been an improvement. Apologies.
jwi71 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 JWI, Is there something you love about the special person in your life? Please share. What do I love about my GF? The list would range for pages. Her eyes Her smile Her easy laugh Her intelligence Her "not taking crap attitude" Her accent and how she occasionally mispronounces words. Her independence Her thoughtfulness. She is open to new things She tolerates mistakes Great with my kids Same thought processes as I do Action-oriented (show me don't tell me kinda thing) She enjoys the arts (theater and opera - hard to find true aficionados) and on and on and on...I think she's pretty awesome.
Author His4Always Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 That's wonderful, jwi. Thanks for sharing. Thanks for the apology too.
CFSLP2010 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 (edited) His4always, I feel the same way about MM. Enjoy him to the fullest... Edited September 21, 2011 by CFSLP2010
SoMovinOn Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I thought it would be nice to post some things we love about the special loves of our lives. My GF an I have been in love most of our lives. I fell in love with her 35 or so years ago. We were apart for about 27 years, and we came back together about a year and a half ago. We found the love we had before and forever since was still there, and, we fell in love again (more?) as who we are now. The reasons why I love her now are pretty much the same as they were then... (definitely not an all inclusive list) - She is beautiful in every way - She is sweet, kind, polite, gentle - She is different things at different times - very intelligent and professional at times, fun and childlike other times - Soft spoken, well mannered, shy, demure at times, when we are alone, she can be an animal - She has the most awesome smile, giggle and laugh - She can see the good in almost anyone - She talks through problems with openness and honesty - We are both very alike in many ways as much as we are complete opposites in many ways, so we connect well and compliment each other - We constantly learn from each other through our differences - We communicate extremely well non-verbally, picking up subtle cues from each other without the need to talk about it - She loves me like no woman ever has or ever will - She lets me love her - She feels safe and comfortable with me, being just who she is, feeling whatever she is feeling and thinking whatever she is thinking. - I love that she is strong willed and independent, but still very much makes me feel she needs me and wants me - When I am with her, I feel I am "home" - She could easily have any guy she wanted, but she picked *me* - Even after I broke her heart, she continued to love me with all the pieces
fooled once Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I thought it would be nice to post some things we love about the special loves of our lives. The things I love: He is mine and mine alone He is with me every night when we go to sleep and we are together every morning when we wake. I can call him whenever I need him; I am not limited to only calling during non-family times. He has the best smile. He has the warmest heart. He loves my son and is an excellent role model. He loves me - faults and all. Neither of us are perfect; and we accept our limitations and goof ups. We don't need to hang out with friends to have a good time - our weekends are spent together 24/7 and they are blissful; whether we are traveling or at home doing honey-do chores.Our families love us - my parents adore their son in law and his parents adore me, their daughter in law. My parents have their own room in our home when they come from out of state for 2 week visits.We tend to make out like teenagers at times He has been there for me in more ways than I can count. He has sat through 13 surgeries in the last 13 years and has never once complained about having to help with my recovery.At 55, he looks damn good for his age and can still turn me on with just one look.We don't need to talk or text all day -- we know at the end of the day we will be together; plus we don't get paid to spend all day acting like 12 year olds with texting and calling.He loves to spoil me - I have more clothes and shoes than I know what to do with.He loved the 2011 Camaro I bought him for Valentines Day.He holds my hand when he drives, he opens all doors (car, store, etc) for me every single day.He makes me laugh.He respects me.He loves me
woinlove Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Yeah really. I highly doubt that people secure & happy in their relationships come & start a thread on LS just to brag about all the things they love. It's like middle school & I don't buy it. I wonder how Denmark can handle all these spoiled eggs. Maybe this is the new Daisy . . . and/or VWeb/ SwimmingFreely or one of its other incarnations. Let's see if her MM has legs. [That is still my all-time favorite LOL post from LS.] Agree. But maybe if someone needs to convince herself to stay an OW this helps. Maybe.
SoMovinOn Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Aaaaw SMO...this was so sweet...and I really mean that...no sarcasm... "Even after I broke her heart, she continued to love me with all the pieces" We have very similar stories...of course without the xMM still loving me part...xMM would have once wrote all that too...even after he broke my heart...I still love him with the few pieces left...so your post made me sad but that's OK...I like to read your posts and dream... Thank you Lost. It's nice that my comment touched you in a positive, albeit, sad way. I couldn't have dreamed I'd ever have a second chance with her. I couldn't have dreamed we would be in love like this and everything we are together. I don't know what I did right to deserve this from her.
Author His4Always Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 Lost and 26, Have I done something to offend you? If I have, I am very sorry. Please accept my apologies. I don't understand the negativity. Please, if there's something you love about someone special in your life, please share.
Author His4Always Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 Would it be asking too much to keep this a positive thread? Thank you to all who have shared.
woinlove Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Lost and 26, Have I done something to offend you? If I have, I am very sorry. Please accept my apologies. I don't understand the negativity. Please, if there's something you love about someone special in your life, please share. This isn't about lost or 26. You've been spreading negativity yourself, dismissing posters, making underhanded comments, and others are responding to that. Look over your own posts if you want to learn why people are responding the way the are.
Author His4Always Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 This isn't about lost or 26. You've been spreading negativity yourself, dismissing posters, making underhanded comments, and others are responding to that. Look over your own posts if you want to learn why people are responding the way the are.Hi woinlove, I do not recall doing any of that. In my first thread, I recall asking for responses relevant to my question, and only answering relevant questions. If I have offended anyone, please accept my apology.
SoMovinOn Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 OK OK enough already...just kidding... It's nice to see how it could have been...sometimes...I'm past the rough part now...otherwise your post would have made me bawl my eyes out...progress... Progress is good! There was a time when I thought I might have a hard time dealing with the last time my W walked out the door. Whatever happened here at the end, prior to that, we had a lot of really good years and we were extremely good together in every way. No matter what, I would think I'd have spent some time mourning the loss of that. Thankfully, she has done everything possible to make that part very easy for me.
Author His4Always Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 Yes!!!...I don't like to accuse people of trolling right away...and I'm still not 100% sure of troll...bc trolls tend to just highjack other's post not post 6 of their own posts all at the same time right when they first join... But I was thinking Daisy for sure...but H4N seems a little older than 12...if she is Swimming or Daisy or VWeb she's sure hiding it well...time will tell how long she can hide it...I'm thinking 5 years should be sufficient...I am not a troll and I just joined here. I found the forum yesterday through a search engine. Posts like this don't make me feel very welcome though. I have apologized for offending you, so I am not sure what else you want from me. There are some things that I don't feel comfortable sharing yet. I am sorry if that makes me appear trollish to you. If I'm not welcome here, I will be happy to leave. If I am to stay here, I hope we can get along well.
lilmiss Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Love is a positive emotion. Being with someone who accepts you the way you are and makes you feel wonderful is a very positive tool in building ones self esteem.
NoIDidn't Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 There is NOTHING positive about infidelity. I agree, but this is a forum where OW are supposed to be able to post about their affairs. Even the parts we don't like to hear about. I could post all of the things that I love about my "special someone", but because he is my H, some may take offense to that just like people are taking offense to the fact that she is talking about doing these things with someone else's husband.
Silly_Girl Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I agree, but this is a forum where OW are supposed to be able to post about their affairs. Even the parts we don't like to hear about. I could post all of the things that I love about my "special someone", but because he is my H, some may take offense to that just like people are taking offense to the fact that she is talking about doing these things with someone else's husband. Not sure why you'd think that. JT and FO post about how wonderful their H's are, DM posts about her bf, and I might be wrong but I've never seen anyone so much as react. Go for it!
Angelina527 Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I agree, but this is a forum where OW are supposed to be able to post about their affairs. Even the parts we don't like to hear about. I could post all of the things that I love about my "special someone", but because he is my H, some may take offense to that just like people are taking offense to the fact that she is talking about doing these things with someone else's husband. But when one posts, one should expect truthful answers. She asked why the thread isn't positive, and my answer is that there is nothing positive about affairs. And I am speaking as a former OW who married her man, then became the BS. I know both sides and there isn't anything pretty or positive about it.
NoIDidn't Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 But when one posts, one should expect truthful answers. She asked why the thread isn't positive, and my answer is that there is nothing positive about affairs. And I am speaking as a former OW who married her man, then became the BS. I know both sides and there isn't anything pretty or positive about it. I'm very sorry that you too have seen the flipside of the happy part of an affair.
Angelina527 Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I'm very sorry that you too have seen the flipside of the happy part of an affair. I learned a very valuable lesson and got my just desserts.
Author His4Always Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 A guilty dog barks the loudest. I never understood the need to brag about making love. I guess it is extra special when you have to hide and sneak to find the time to do it. If you lay your head down with him every night and wake up in each others arms every morning making love is common and incredible thus the need not to brag. You never see people on message boards in exclusive relationships bragging about the incredible sex they had last night. It is expected with couples and not bragworthy.I don't agree. The positives, including making love, should be celebrated.
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