devastated828 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 For those that aren't aware with my situation here is the link to my previous thread....however i have a new situation http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3625684#post3625684 My ex broke up with me after a 1 year relationship...and after I quit being crazy and neurotic I decided to try the NC route. We haven't seen each other for 2 weeks but it's been 1 week of absolute no contact. I restored my Facebook after deleting it and he tried to Facebook chat me a few days ago...but I ignored it since I've been in NC...and secretly doing so to win him back. The following night his friend (a mutual one but she tends to follow him more) sent me another text...very strange one...asking what i was doing...I did not respond. Tonight my ex sent me a text asking me if I was in a relationship. That was the only thing he said...I have yet to respond...and not a minute after I got that text he posted "**** it" on his Facebook status. So my question is: Is he frustrated from not hearing from me and wants me back or is he saying "**** it" about dealing with me and wants me out of his life completely? I kinda sorta still want him back (thats another story) but I don't want him to give up on trying to get with me if that is indeed what he wants... I have heard that you should not contact your ex back until they have tried to contact you three times...is that a correct rule??? What should I do/say? I still love him but in a way I don't want him back. He was very selfish, and recently started seeing this other guy. (which there isn't a good thing about this guy) and I despise both of them for that. He was a huge partier and I don't know if I want that in my life right now. And I have been having so much fun doing all kinds of new things.... What to do? Thanks for all the advice and let me know if I need to make something clearer.
TheDovic Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 If he didn't want anything to do with you he wouldn't care if you didn't text him, so he must have some feelings for you. I don't know if this means he wants you back, but he seems to want you in his life still
Author devastated828 Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 So now I checked Facebook and he deleted me from his friends list..WTF! What's going on now? Help me guys...I don't know what to do. I liked NC but now I think it has caused more problems.
TheDovic Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Again, he must still have some feelings for you. If he didn't he wouldn't have gotten frustrated and he wouldn't care if you were his friend on Facebook. I think he is trying to get a reaction from you! Remember, anger is not the opposite of love, indifference is! If he is angry at you it is because he still has some feelings.
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